I've just found out I'm going to be a dad. My partner always wanted to be a mum but she lost the baby at 10 weeks. She's totally confused now as to whether she actually wants the baby. She doesnt feel any bond to the baby and has totally pushed me away. She's going to stay with a friend for a while in the hope that this will clarify what she wants to do. I'm an emotional wreck because a fornight ago everything seemed great. She cant say anything to help me understand the situation apart from "it may be my hormones". I know I'm being selfish but I cant stand the thought of losing her so I have started to distance myself from her to protect myself. I fear we are going to seperate for good but cant seem to do anything to help the situation. I'm open to any suggestion.