Recently found out I'm expecting my 2nd baby after a 16 year gap. was initially scared to death at the thought of it, but boyfriends delighted and I'm really looking forward to it now. With my first I was 4 months gone before finding out and had no boyfriend (we broke up before I knew) and it was like I had done something wrong. This time its great to share it with someone and to feel good about it and excited, cant wait for my 12 week scan so that we can see everythings going ok and we can tell everyone the news. Feels so different to the first time, because the first time round as soon as i found out i was feeling movement and had a bump and very shortly it was obvious that i was expecting. This time round the waiting to tell people is so difficult... think im gonna burst!