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I had the medical procedure it was very scary it has been 4 days now I feel really upset and I will never forget this every time I look at a baby or it reminds me of what I did and how I got in to this situation I can't even talk to any man it makes me so scared the thought what ther capabable of I hope this will change in time I just feel so alone right now and don't know how to move forward

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rmh2012

Hope you're ok. Please go back to your doctor and ask for a referral to someone who can help you get through this. You really shouldn't need to do this on your own.

Take care

R x

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kipper

Oh you poor thing!

You do need to talk to someone who will listen and understand.

Try lifecharity.org.uk/after-ab... - they are very caring and are there for you. They have a text service - text LIFECARE to 88020 and someone will text you back.

I'm thinking of you.

K

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Thirdtimelucky

I agree with the last two comments, please please please asked to be referred to a counsellor, honestly Hun, having someone who is there to listen and sworn to secrecy through their job, who listens and helps you through things and doesn't judge you, is one of the best things I ever did. What you did was not an easy decision, and circumstances that it all came about were very distressing for you. You need someone to talk to ( as well as us) to help you out of this despair, thinking of you and wishing you all the best,

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jbs4333

Wishing you all the best hun, definitely seek out someone who can help. You need someone to listen, someone you can trust and lots of time to heal.

Sending you love and prayers,

J x

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kipper

How are you doing? I hope you've gotten some help by now.

We're thinking of you.

K

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