I found out just before I came on holiday that I'm pregnant with my first. I'm 40 and hadn't prepared for it...no folic acid and was drinking until I found out. I reckon I'm about 8 or 9 weeks. Over the last three days I've had a bit of spotting, really just when wiping, but I've also been having cramps. My GP did warn that it was common to bleed between 6 and 8 weeks, and advised complete rest if it happened, so I have been doing that. I am worried sick but don't fly home for another 7 days and I don't know what to do....help!