origanlly i didn't tell my parents i was pregnant and i had a termination booked for financial reasons but before i booked it they did all the tests required such as blood, weight, height, urine, and ultra scan but obviously me and my partner was not aloud to see that as it was for a termination. When they told me i had to have a operation because i was 12 weeks (to far along) i had to have day surgery i was terrified so i told my mum and we all agreed i keep my baby. I cancelled the termination and told my doctor, i got a call from my hospital on thursday just gone saying they are fully booked till this week so i cant have a scan because i will be over 14 weeks which is really disheartening to hear and they told me to go private for my first scan if i wanted one but i cant afford it because of fiancial reasons which is why i booked a termination in the first place. i really want this first scan as i dont no anything about my baby like when im roughly due etc and they have not given me any notes to give to my midwife when i meet her/him, my mum has told me to complain as this is ill treatment and this happened to her and then she miscarried so now my family are all really worried. I would like some advice on what i should do please.
First baby 14 weeks and not aloud a scan what should i... - NCT
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