Laparoscopic surgery

[Pink-rain]

Hi, I have been Diagnosed with polycystic ovaries in 2020. I manage to fall pregnant natural in December 2020 which I was over the moon about. I shortly had a miscarriage in December which I was absolutely gutted this happened. Me and my GPs talking about having laparoscopic surgery? Has any one else has this surgery and manage to fall pregnant okay ? We are currently in the process of the blood tests for ovulation and hormones. I need to have the MMR injection 2 doses as my immune system is not up to full capacity. This surgery it meant to be really good for People with mild or serve infertility problems with PCOS or any other condition. It’s fine by key hole and makes ne really nervous as I really want a family of my own so desperately 🥺🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️ If anyone has there own story I would be highly grateful thank you.

[roxannacar]

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Unfortunately they are very common. Around 20-25% of first pregnancies end up in miscarriage. Saying that I fail to see how a laparoscopy would help. If you got pregnant fairly easily, I would look at trying natural again. A laparoscopy is not a fertility procedure in itself, and never heard of this being used for pcos. Making sure you are healthy, loosing weight in particular with pcos (low carb diets work best), exercising is the best thing you can do for fertility. Getting your MMR of you did have it is a great idea, and making sure you're taking pre natal vitamins well before getting pregnant.Might be with worth looking at the NHS website re pcos.

[Pink-rain in reply to roxannacar]

Hi, thank you for you’re reply. The first time round I can not say how long this took me to get pregnant as it came as a surprise. Dealing with PCOS I know can be a lot harder to fall pregnant but I did natural at some point which is a good sign. With his surgery they drill little holes in the ovaries to release the hormones they you carry to much of and give you more of a chance to get pregnant. how well this works I am very unsure? but I did hear about diet, being healthier and the vitamins. Thank you for you’re reply 👏🏻

[Artmum22]

Hi Pink Rain, I would say that you should avoid that surgery, and think about going for an IVF, followed by infusions of intralipids to keep the baby in the womb safe and have a full term baby. As other mothers suggested, take pregnancy vitamins, a lot of folic acid from now to prepare your body, followed by exercise and a low carb, low salt diet. I was told to have a laparoscopy for my ademiosis ( a form of endometriosis) but after I delivered the baby as my obstetrician saw that I was bleeding heavily during my c-section. She said it was optional, just as a check, but I did not go for it as I did not see the point. Hope this helps and good luck!

[Pelince]

Hi Pink-rain. I had a laparoscopy surgery 3 years ago due to 7cm myoma which was outside the uterus but it would get bigger if I did not have the operation. I did not have any symptoms like heavy period or pain, it was found when I went just for an annual check. However, I had the operation (but it was in Bulgaria and the specialist who did is one of the best there). In 2 days time I was at home, the recovery is not painful at all and you can do everything you have done before, you don't need to lie down or limit your movements, exactly the opposite if you are more active, then it is better for you. It was not recommended to fly 3-4 weeks after the surgery, but apart from that there was not any other restrictions. Exactly a mont after that I have started working again with absolutely no issues. 3 months you cannot have sex and 6 months should be really careful of not getting pregnant. It may be different in your case, so if you have a chance go for a second opinion but with my experience, there is nothing scary and if I have to do it again, I will( even though I was such a panic the first time ). I have been told that every 1 out of 4 women has a miscarriage but most even do not realise as it is in very early pregnancy and it looks like just a normal monthly period. I also had a miscarriage but that did not stop me of trying and I am currently pregnant ( 3 days left to my due date 😊) The specialist will know better than us, so don't save your questions and don't read a lot on Google. Good luck, think positive and everything will be fine 🍀🙂

[Pink-rain]

Thank you all for all you’re responses and reply with help and support they have really helped me xxx

[Ozzzxxx]

Hi Pink Rain, I had a laparoscopic surgery in July 2019 due to Fibroids in my uterus. Operation itself went smoothly but I was advised not to have a natural birth due to a weakness in the walls of my uterus as a result of the operation. I had a miscarriage in August 2020. But then fell pregnant in November 2020 and gave birth in July 2021. Son is 8 months now, delivery was through Caesarean section and I feel the surgery played a role in me becoming pregnant as I struggled in the past to become pregnant and it ended in miscarriage.

[Kat234]

Hi Pink-rain,

My husband and I were trying for a baby pre-pandemic. We waited 2 years to be able to access the services we needed to find out what the problem was. I had a 'bulky' left ovary and some other symptoms like painful periods and pelvic pain. The ultrasounds didn't show anything.

Because I'm 38 my options were either have a laparoscopy to see what's going on inside or straight to IVF. I had long suspected I have endometriosis and so went for the lap as it would give me peace of mind about my own health as well as hopefully increasing my chances of conceiving as certain things (like blocked tubes, mild endo, cycst etc) can often be treated at the same time.

I'm glad I went for this option. Turns out I do have endometriosis. It was moderate and they were able to remove the majority of it. They also checked my ovary and although bulky in appearance it is nothing to worry about - they call it polycystic morphology rather than syndrome for me as I don't have any if the other symptoms.

Prior to surgery I'd also had irregular periods. Sometimes going up to 45 days in a cycle - a cruel cruel trick of nature! During the lap the surgeon also diathermied my ovaries to regulate ovulation which totally worked - 28/29 days like clockwork.

I had the surgery late September 2021 and I am now 10 weeks pregnant. I'm certain that not only did the physical treatment increase my chances but just knowing exactly what was going on inside really put my mind at rest. Being stressed and anxious isn't conducive to getting pregnant. So, that's my positive story. I can't say what you should do, only you will know deep down but I keep my fingers crossed for you. Although you had a miscarriage - which I am so sorry to hear about btw (it's my biggest fear right now) - you did manage to conceive naturally which is huge positive. If like me your periods are wayward or the GP thinks something can be done re the PCOS via surgery then I would say it's worth exploring. X

[Kat234]

To add... recovery after lap really depends on what they find and/or treat when they have a look around. I was able to go running 4 weeks after surgery and start trying to conceive again 1 cycle after surgery. The consultant's advice was to listen to my body - it's not a case of one size fits all.

[Pink-rain in reply to Kat234]

Hi Kat234, thank you for your amazing story which wasn’t to daunting! 😰🙌🏻 I am so pleased you got to the bottom of you’re diagnosis and you’re mind is at ease nothing better! 🙏🏻 a massive congratulations on you’re bundle of joy and relax and enjoy each day as it come. ❤️ Yes I did fall natural which is a blessing and some hope and faith in the positive direction. the surgery still worries me and didn’t help I watch a video on it 🤦🏻‍♀️ So I am 50/50 but will keep this in mind for the future. Once I have had my jabs out the way for my MMR and have to wait 2 month in total then I will try again naturally again. I might talk to the doctor to see if they can give me tablets to start with and see how I go 🙌🏻🙏🏻 Thank you for you’re reply and I wish you all the best in you’re pregnancy x