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Scared of losing baby advice or reassurance please

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Hey

I just need alittle reassurance .

I lost my first baby but didn’t realise until 17weeks when I had my first scan as it was a missed miscarriage and I had to get all removed at hospital .

I had my 2nd baby he’s almost a year old .

And now I’m pregnant again I don’t have much symptoms with this pregnancy I spent almost all of my last pregnancy in hospital with saviour sickness from week 2 but should I be worried I might misscarry again as hardly any symptoms and so sickness it’s alittle hard to believe I have no sickness after how bad I had it I’m terrified .

Thankyou in advance

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Emmaxxx

First of all congratulations 🥳. I know that you must be worried due to your past experiences but all pregnancies are different. And if you are just pregnant your body may still be getting used to the hormones before they start raging!! Please try and relax and stay calm. Book to see your midwife and hopefully they will keep a closer eye on you due to your past history. Good luck and keep well xxx

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Jemjem321 in reply to Emmaxxx

Thankyou and Thankyou for the reassurance with everything going on and being stuck inside it’s making it even harder not to think into it to much I find myself researching all day long . But you are right I need to try and relax and will try my best 💗

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HollyT7

Hey, I didn't have sickness until bang on 6 weeks... and it's never really left! Make the most of it xxx ❤️

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louloutaylor

Congratulations babes, my sister in law had bad sickness with a girl and now she is having a boy she had nothing she's due in May and had hardly any symptoms when I had my boy I had nothing not even heart burn right up to having him at 38 weeks but with my daughter my god it was aweful lol I went on to have 3 more boys and it was a dream so it might be a case of if u had a girl first more hormones flying about they carry more then boys do if u had a girl first most likley carrying a male now or vice verce u gotta try relax first 3 months are the most important congrats again good luck

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Jemjem321 in reply to louloutaylor

Thankyou for the reply 🙈 I had a boy first but my sickness was absolutely awful hospital everyday ! Almost ! But Yh not really any symptoms at the moment hopefully everything is ok I just need to try relax with it I guess . Thankyou again x

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Essexbaby

Hiya, when I first fell pregnant I didnt really have many symptoms than about week 6 the nausea started and hasn't stopped. I hope that gives you some reassurance.

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Jemjem321

Hey everyone I am around 8 weeks now and I have no symptoms my pregnancy tests still days 5 weeks plus I don’t have my first midwife oppointment until I’m around 11 weeks think it’s due to the virus ?

I’m having extreme anxiety not sure if it’s possible to go from having extreme sickness with one baby to having completely no symptoms with the next .

It’s really hard not to stress myself out but with all these quarantine There’s a lot of thinking time .

Anyone had anything similar ?

Thankyou in advance 😢

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