Hi all, not sure I'm in the Wright place but ...I'm 25 and have been married for 7 months. I'm new here and I found this place as I wanted to vent or chat to someone other than my husband.
We have been trying for a baby for about 7 months now, I was on the pill but came off of it about 3 months before we started to try. This is something I have always wanted and with every month that I get a period it breaks my heart, and I know it can take up to a year for a couple to get pregnant but I can't help feeling down and worried.
My husband always tells me that "it can take a year" , "not rush things"or "overthink it" and my personal favourite "it will happen when it happens" I know he's trying to help but I feel alone in my frustration.
It makes it even harder seeing all my school friends with 2-3 children already, it makes me feel broken.
I know that 7 months is not a very long time in the scheme of things when it comes to trying to get pregnant however I always thought it would happen quicker than it is. I can't help but overthink every time my period it late or o get some vague symptom of pregnancy.
As much as I love my husband I don't think he understands the torture and heart break I go through every month.
Anyway thank you for reading, it feels good to get it out and hopefully have some understanding! X