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My world stood still!

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I went for my 12 week scan yesterday, sadly my baby’s heart had stopped beating at 11+3! Our hearts are completely broke, now I am worried on how am I going to explain to my 4 year old who thinks she is going to have another brother or sister 😭

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Shelleybean

I’m so sorry. How truly heartbreaking 💔 There are no words that will make you feel better right now, but take good care of yourself xx

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to Shelleybean

Thankyou huni! I have a gawguss little boy and girl still doesn't make the pain any less but these will keep me going? X

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Shelleybean in reply to Mammyoftwolove

You’re so right hun. Two wonderful blessings there 💖💖 xx

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MissSaoPaulo

I'm so sorry hon, sending you big hugs xxx

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to MissSaoPaulo

Thankyou!

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Kitcat12

😞 I'm so sorry for your loss x

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to Kitcat12

Thankyou huni x

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Dreamingofbaby

So sorry to hear this hun. Is so devastating. Take good care xx

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to Dreamingofbaby

Thankyou x

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BethJ7

💔my heart breaks for you. No one should have to go through this pain. I know it doesn’t help but my thoughts are with you and your family. X

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to BethJ7

Thankyou really appreciate huni x

Aww I know I had to tell my 2 kids when we had our first mc at 12w there was no baby ☹️ they were 10&12 at the time we decided not to tell them when we got pregnant again until after our scan they actually figured out I was pregnant the day after the 12w scan we hadn’t told them yet we had bad news again so they were excited was so hard for me to tell them. We conceived again they said they wanted to know and not to keep it secret we mc that one too at 12w and I’ve just had a chemical this weekend.

Sending hugs it’s the worst feeling x

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to

Aw am so sorry huni!

Sending hugs back to, such a hard time to go through! X

in reply to Mammyoftwolove

I hope u are ok look after yourself x

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Mara84

I’ve been there, feel your pain... look after yourself. Wish I could say something to make you feel better. So sorry for what you are going through Xx

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to Mara84

So sorry to hear that huni! And thankyou you to x

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Bellaaa1

So sorry for your loss 💔 sending big hugs 🤗 you take care xx

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Mammyoftwolove in reply to Bellaaa1

Thankyou x

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Johnnythecat

I'm truly sorry for your loss 😢 it is the worst sensation ever. I was just 10weeks when I lost the baby I was devastated too, and it is even harder to explain it to a 4 year old. Ask for a medical advice on how to say this to him and in the meantime please take care of yourself 🙏 be kind to yourself 🙏

Big hugs xx

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Avia25

I'm so sorry for your loss😪. Send you hugs!!!

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