When I was pregnant I made it clear I didn't want my little girl to be near anyone smoking. My partner's parents both chain smoke in their house. I've always rang before going so they aren't smoking when we get there but are recently the room has been filled with smoke. Today we went to visit my little girls great gran with his mum and his mum was smoking in her flat, I said to my partner we are leaving because of the smoke, which we did. He doesn't see the issues as long as they arent smoking when shes in the room. Its causing me massive anxiety I've not been able to stop thinking about it all day.
Anyone got any advise on asking them to respect my wishes?
I'm at the point where they wont be seeing her if they want to smoke around her they will have to come down to my house. Which is difficult because they dont drive and have a disabled daughter but I have to think about my little girls health