I have a 4 month old baby who I love so much but she seems to bond more with my husband than me and it pains me every time. My husband doesn't have to do much to make her smile/laugh whereas I have to sing songs, read stories, constantly entertain her to get a smile. What am I doing wrong? I bf her thinking that's the closest way for us to bond but it seems I'm only useful in providing her milk and that's it. It hurts me so much.