13 + 2 panic

[Ghosty1]

Hiya all . I am currently 13 +2 weeks pregnant. Have had dating scan already and due first week in June. Everything was fine etc all has been good. Nausea but no sickness, severe backache, swollen gums , horrendous bloating etc which I can handle. Just sitting here right now with sheer panic. Probably for no reason just hoping babba is ok and nothing wrong. Dont have any pregnancy feeling today but know it can happen.....just getting it off my chest more than anything and looking for mummy reassurance that risk of mc is reduced now xxxx 😯🤔

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[destiny121]

Hi my move, I had terrible morning sickness, however my friend who is now 16 weeks didn’t have any... only nausea... so totally normal I’d say xx

[Ghosty1 in reply to destiny121]

Hiya I think I have been lucky and haven't had it. Although I have a band that has helped no end. I was just after reassurance xx

[E_05]

I think it’s only natural to worry especially on days you feel more ‘normal’, Ive found the next days pregnancy symptoms hit with a vengeance.

It’s good that you’ve written on here, I think letting it out helps the panic as it’s not just going round in your head. Hopefully in a few weeks you should start to feel some movements and that’ll give you some re assurance xx

[Ghosty1 in reply to E_05]

Thank you very much. Every now and then I get a tickly feeling on my stomach on the left side. I am wondering if it's the baby moving as he/she was a wriggle on the scan. I would tell my partner when u I panic but dont want to panic him unnecessary, especially as he hasn't a clue as much as me xxx

[E_05 in reply to Ghosty1]

Sounds like that could be baby, just before my dating scan although I was 13 weeks I felt a tickling feeling but at the time never made the connection.

That’s understandable, I find sometimes my hubby doesn’t always fully understand my anxiety like everyone on here xx

[Ghosty1 in reply to E_05]

Yes that's why I have come on here. I feel so much better now that you have replied and I'm not being silly. I have waited so long for a happy life and the opportunity for a family. Just seems to good to be true just wont want it to go wrong xx

[E_05 in reply to Ghosty1]

You’re definitely not being silly, I still feel like that and convince myself daily that something bad has happened. I think when you’ve had such a tough journey to get here it’s hard to believe this is it.

We’re always here for a chat or re assurance xx

[Ghosty1 in reply to E_05]

Thank you very much I feel like your my angel you have made me calm as you have spoken such sence, I can breath a sigh of relief. Thank you xxxx

[E_05 in reply to Ghosty1]

Aw no problem at all, I’m glad I could help xx

[Ghosty1 in reply to E_05]

You certainly have. I have been reading up on eating habits while pregnant as I dont eat much fruit and veg. I dont get much help or guidance really so it's all on internet reading. Xx

[E_05 in reply to Ghosty1]

I think it depends on your nausea, I was quite sick up until 16 weeks and barley kept down a meal let alone vegetables but tried to compensate with eating fruit. I still find fruit more manageable than veg xx

[Ghosty1 in reply to E_05]

I haven't been too bad with sickness. Had nausea but when it came on I put a wrist band on and it took it off within 15 mins. It's been my saving grace really x

[Masha111 in reply to Ghosty1]

Hi

I was lucky too in that i only had nausea and wasnt actually sick. Im 15 wks today and i have back ache and leg cramps (alongside the never ending constipation). I have broken sleep from getting up at night for a pee and not being able to get back to sleep lol.

Im not complaining as i have been blessed and trying to stay positive. Its hard when your symptoms come and go. i must say i have more energy now than in my first trimester. Im back at work on a phased return.

I had my dating scan 4 weeks ago and dont get my anomaly scan until 5 weeks time. Im going to call the hosp tomorrow to see if they can book me in for a reassurance scan. Hopefully when baby starts kicking and I feel movement i will feel better.

Any risk of miscarriage is greatly reduced at 12 weeks so it can only be onwards and upwards hereon in x

We will get there Ghosty, just take each day as it comes and dont read too much into things. Some days you will feel no symptoms and other days you will have it all lol. Try to enjoy this time as when you have your baby and look back at your pregnancy you will wish you hadnt worried so much.

Sorry i just managed to read your post but glad E05 and Destiny were there for you. X

[Ghosty1 in reply to Masha111]

Morning your post is actually like reading it is me in every way. So that's reasureance in itself . I haven't had any time off work I have just plodded on through. I didnt know the hospital can do reassurance scans. I suppose it's all a learning curve, I haven't had much contact with midwives either so the questions I do have are answered through internet or other people x

[Milly39]

I’m the same. 11w. I have had no sickness, but I didn’t with my first either, just the occasional nausea. I’m seriously constipated 😫 and bloated, but otherwise I don’t feel very pregnant, boobs have stopped hurting. I had an early pregnancy scan because of a bleed so know everything is ok 🙂 think it’s just one of those things xxx

[Ghosty1]

Well today I woke up feeling sick, backache tired etc so its def come back 😏. I take it in my stride while I'm at work so atleast I know everything is normal xxx