Hi. I'm 9wks pregnant. Me and my partner don't live together we both still live at home with our parents as its cheaper. We've been together almost 5yrs and have only been seeing his 2kids for just over 2yrs as the ex stopped him for 2yrs when I came along. we are trying to save to move out but it's hard. We see the kids every other weekend and they sleep over at his once a month. I stay at my partners house every weekend and it's a good half an hours drive to his and i stay when the kids do. My partner doesn't drive so it's all down to me and sometimes I just feel like a chauffeur. As I then have to drive to wherever we're going for the day. Me and the kids haven't gotten really close there both Mummys kids but we get on really well. He's just told me that the kids might be coming over every weekend. One visit on a Saturday the next they'll sleep then the following visit on the Sunday. I work full time as a carer and I'm pretty exhausted and look forward to quiet weekends. And the thought of every weekend having to drive to collect them and drop them off I feel exhausted thinking about it. So I told him that some weekends he'll just have to have them on his own so I can have a free weekend. He called me selfish and that I'm making him feel guilty for seeing his kids more. Which isn't the case I never said it shouldn't happen. This will be my first child and when the baby is here then it's something I'm gonna have to get use to and his kids being around which is fine when we live together. I might have to live at home when the baby arrives if we haven't found anywhere and I will still have to drive with the baby to his and then still do the running around for his kids. Am. I wrong in wanting the odd weekend alone while I still can?