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12w 2d I’ve had the tiniest pinky colour when I’ve wiped my scan is tomorrow I’ve started to panic i mc at 12w last time. I’m so scared and upset.

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jessyjessy572

Fingers cross it is nothing and all is ok. 💕 we are now trying again after MC so I can understand how you feel as know I will be so scared for MC not to happen again. I know easier said then done but try not to worry in advance and praying that all will be ok tomorrow xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Awwww lovely. I know how you feel been there enough times.. Is it just when you wiped? No flow and no more when you wiped? At 16 weeks in this pregnancy I lost a blood clot totally 💩myself but all has been ok so far now I'm 26 weeks. Sometimes these things happen with no explanation and everything is ok. I'm hoping that's it for you and your scan offers you so much reassurance tomorrow lovely. Do let us know how you get on.

Thinking if you. Take care hun

😘💝

Yeah just a tiny bit I’m just hoping that was it and it doesn’t get more.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Hopefully it won't hun. Let us know how your scan goes. Hope your ok xxx

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McrLass

All my fingers and toes crossed, try to relax, will be thinking about you tomorrow x 🌸

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Sisi14

Aw hun fingers crossed all will be well babe , just stay on bed rest for the day and drink plenty of fluids. Wish you the very best tomorrow xx 😘

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I have 4 kids today going to be pretty hard but I’ll try to stay calm and relaxed thanks x

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Sisi14

Yes I know the feeling of the kids babe I have 3 . If you can just try and put a movie on with your youngest and chill on the sofa babe . My thoughts are with you that all will be ok and well! Pregnancy is a blessing but a worry constantly. Hugs 🤗 to you xx

Hi there’s been no more was just that little bit, I was really upset it was happening again. I feel better now. I will post tomorrow after my scan hopefully with good news.

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Sisi14 in reply to

I’m happy there’s no more brown discharge babe which is good news. All the best for tomorrow xx 😘

Thanks everyone xx

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Maltr

Breathe and try to relax. I had 6 or 7 red and brown clots when i wiped at around 16 weeks. I totally freaked out as had had 2 miscarriages before. I was adamant it was the start of another. Very pleased to say i was very wrong and my baby is still healthy and we're 3 weeks away from c section date. The fact you've had no more blood is really positive. I'll have all my fingers crossed for you for tomorrow. Xxx

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It was pinky no clots just thought not again thought it might get heavier but that was it, so I’m relieved. It does make you so worried when you’ve mc before.

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Maltr

It completely does, you get the sinking feeling and the 'not again' thoughts. I was wrong though, and i'm hoping it'll be the same for you, and you'll get to see your baby wriggling away at your scan tomorrow. Rxx

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Sisi14

Thinking of you 😘 xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Hoping today goes well hun xx

Not good news I’m afraid baby measured at 9 weeks with no heartbeat 😪 gutted again.

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to

Awwwwww hun. I'm so sorry to hear this sending you hugs and love. Bless ya. Life's so unfair. If you need to talk hun my inbox is open anytime. So sorry 😘💝💝

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Sisi14 in reply to

I am so sorry Hunni , I am devastated for you as I know how much your little one is loved and wanted. Thinking of you and a prayer to your little bean . Hugs 🤗 and kisses to you my lovely. Xx

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McrLass in reply to

So sorry xx thinking of you xx 😘

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Maltr in reply to

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear this. Xxxx

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Major2116

Aww hun, I'm so sorry! We've lost 2 babies. With our first, we thought I was nearly 12 weeks, I started bleeding and went for our scan to be told our baby stopped growing at 9 weeks :(. I know how heartbreaking it can be.

We now have a 17 week old baby so don't give up hope!

If you wanna talk then just message me! X

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Did you have a d&c or natural?

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Major2116 in reply to

We had complications with our first miscarriage. Our baby was stuck in my cervix. The doctor took our baby out my cervix whilst awake then I opted to pass the rest naturally. I was in absolute agony even after our baby was taken.

I had to go the hospital again as they suspected I had an infection but I actually still had clots left even though I passed massive ones so the doctor advised a D&C to stop me being in pain so I agreed x

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