I found out last week I am pregnant, I'm currently 4weeks and 6days.
I told my fiancé that night and had to tell work the following day. I am a chemotherapy nurse and handle very toxic drugs so for my safety had to tell work so I can avoid certain drugs. There are some drugs and gases which have been linked to spontaneous miscarriage so work were very high on the list. I told my best friend as she has been so supportive when I've been heartbroken when periods have arrived.
I have endometriosis and had surgery to treat this in January, my mum came with me to my follow up appointment where I was told to start trying for a baby immediately as the chances of my disease growing back and preventing natural conception was a risk. There was also a chance I would never conceive naturally, so my parents know we have been trying... I'll also get extra scans (first one at 8weeks) as I'm a higher risk of eptopic pregnancy or miscarriage until ten weeks.
My fiance and I are getting married on 7th July so I don't know whether or not to tell some family before then? As it WILL look weird I won't be drinking?
When did other people tell? And any tips for the wedding? People will want to buy me drinks so I'm thinking of having lemonade in a champagne glass etc but I don't even want carbonated drinks at the moment.
Any tips or advice would be appreciated!