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Feeling very down today.

Not even going to say anymore. Feel like I can't even have a rant or anything on here anymore, too many people either have nothing nice to say or are sarcy.

Thank you to all those who have been supportive and given me such good advice though! 😘

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Major2116

You can always message me if you want a rant hun. Hope you're Okay xx

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ffsjes in reply to Major2116

I will do thank you hun!!xx

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AllWeNeedIsluv

Oh lovely. How are you getting on? Have you come on yet. What have drs said. You can have a rant all you want hun my inbox is always open

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ffsjes in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Haven't came on again yet no, CD 58 now and haven't been drs yet waiting for 2nd missed period before I do anything so they can't just say 'I'll come on soon' and thank you hun xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to ffsjes

Bless ya hun

Not long to wait now have you?

Hope they get to bottom of it. Have you took anymore hpt tests?

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ffsjes in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

It's been two weeks since I taken a test which was negative. Don't exactly want to test again as I know it's going to come back negative. No I haven't but I have the first week of June off so I'm going to wait til then and go first thing on my first day off and I'm refusing to move until they do something!xxxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to ffsjes

Bless ya.

Good on you hun something needs to be done most definitely. Do you know you can pay for a hcg blood test if you want it comes through the mail and you do a finger prick test.

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ffsjes in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

Can you really?! How do you go about this? Because if my doctors don't allow me to have one I definitely will do this! I have all the signs but just negative tests!xxx

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AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to ffsjes

I'll pm you could be seen as advertising xx

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ffsjes in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv

You're a star thank you xxx

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Hopful85

I know what you mean. Remember this forum is open to everyone so if you want to rant do it xxx

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ffsjes in reply to Hopful85

I know I'm just sick of saying something about myself or my situation and people giving stupid comments. I always state any advice/opinions on a situation and they're like "you're not gonna get diagnosed on here" I fucking know that AND I've already stated I'm not looking to be diagnosed just opinions/advice/people's experiences and STILL people have negative stuff to say, drives me up the wall. Haven't posted in a while or commented on anything due to people always having something to say!xxx

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Hopful85

I don’t tend to post on here much anymore or offer advice as the regulars act like they’re Doctors and know everything. It’s certainly not an all inclusive group. If you want to chat feel free to inbox me. It’s a shame you feel like that when all you want to do is vent xxx

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Sisi14

Aw hun don’t rant because of some people’s comments, we’ve all been in situations where we want advice and opinions and shouldn’t be judge including me , but as women that experience the same hormones and monthly cycles and problems we should all help each other instead of judging!

You keep strong and rant if you want non of us know it all not even doctors know it all hun so if you need to express yourself do so! All the best xx

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ffsjes in reply to Sisi14

Some of you are all so lovely! Well majority are, just some seem to not be able to help themselves! We should be able to say whatever we like and feel on here without the fear of being judged - I agree some questions are ridiculous but instead of putting them down even more, why not try to help them you know what I mean? It's so stressful! Xxx

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ffsjes in reply to ffsjes

Thank you too my love Sisi14 xxx

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Sisi14 in reply to ffsjes

Your welcome! If you have questions or need advice then just express it don’t let the small minority put you off or make you feel you can’t ! Xx

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LHow81

Sucks you feel that way! You should be able to rant away!! Glad to see so many ladies offering a pm rant. Always up for that too x

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ffsjes in reply to LHow81

Thank you hun x

Hi. I've just look at your previous posts. My periods were all over the place in the first year after coming off the pill. Were you on it for a long time? Admittedly the longest cycle I had was 31 days and the shortest was 20, eventually they settled down around 26 days. 50 days is a long time but I think you're doing the right thing waiting a bit longer before going to the Drs, you'll be taken more seriously then I think. Good luck. It's very frustrating when you're trying TTC xx

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Heya :) yeah I was on microgynon 30 for a year and a half then came off that and went on Cerell which you don't have a break with that at all but I was only on that for just over a month before deciding to want to have a baby. But yeah, I'm waiting for the 'second missed period' because I feel like if I go there after the one, they'll just turn me away, at least when I'm off work I'll be around CD 65ish so then they'll have to look into it more! But my last two cycles were exactly 27 days so I thought they were averaging out! Obviously not 🙄 thanks for the support lovely xxx

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Elleb2017

Hey hun

Just wondering how it all went ? Hope your ok ? Xx

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