Gender advise

[Ainyb]

Hi guys so I’m pregnant with my 3rd baby and I already have a girl (5) & a boy (2) I didn’t find out what I was having when I was pregnant on them two but I don’t know what to do this time around I don’t know if I should find out the gender a part of me wants to so I can get organized n pick up things along d way or keep it a surprise!! What about you guys?

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Hi I chose to find out just because I couldn’t wait and I could prepare myself but it is nice to wait for a surprise

[Sisi14]

Hi Hun I have 3 daughters 15 , 13 and 4 years just turned ! I found out my eldest two but not the youngest, I’m pregnant again and I won’t find out this time either it helps me get through the whole 9 months and labour lol and I tend to buy white navy grows for the first week then I go shopping with baby lol . It is tempting isn’t it but I managed to get through it as I knew my eldest two daughters! All the best with what you decide xx

[Ainyb in reply to Sisi14]

Oh wow 3 girls amazing!! Yes it does help get through n d surprise at d end is just amazing no matter what it is once he/she is healthy n safe! Congratulations on your 4th pregnancy 🤰 d midwife said it’s unusual these days not to find out 😂

[Jmww01 in reply to Ainyb]

I didn't find out sex - currently 17 days pp with my first - and whenever medical staff asked and i told them i was constantly congratulated? Lol All of them said the same about it being unusual these days

[Ainyb in reply to Jmww01]

Yea same I just never found out! But it is personal decision! That’s brilliant tho Medical staff congratulating u not finding out 😂! Yea midwifes sayin so u usual not finding out! But what did they do years ago nobody knew what they wer having esp my mams time she said der was no such thing 😂

[bluebug]

If you aren't bothered by the sex and you didn't find out with the other two, then you won't be unhappy not finding out about this one.

Btw I've not bothered.

[Ainyb in reply to bluebug]

Yes your right I’m going to keep it a surprise I already have 1 of each which I’m very lucky I don’t mind what I have he/she is healthy n safe! Congratulations on ur pregnancy 🤰

[roxannacar]

Very much a personal decision ... I found out with both of mine, because I'm a nosy person! If I had a third I'd probably find out too. If you already have a girl and a boy you probably have all the essentials already no? If you want new stuff you can always buy neutral.

[Ainyb in reply to roxannacar]

Yes ur right it is!! Yes I do der all in attic so plan is to wash newborn girl stuff n newborn boy stuff!! Thanks for d reply 👍👍

[Isabella1999]

I found out but only because it was much easier to buy a certain Colour and for people who wanted to get me things❤️ it's very much a personal preference xxx

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

I agree it's a personal decision, I can't help but find out I found out with my daughter and I'm going to find out today with this pregnancy. I just enjoy finding out and I feel I can get my shop on then and start preparing I'm a bit OTT. 💝😘💝

[Ainyb in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Well yes that’s it get my shop on n b prepared! I’m just so confused cz didn’t find out on d other 2! Still undecided! Hope today went well for u n finding out what u r having xx

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Ainyb]

Well you don't need to really do you if you've got clothes still from your other children.

It did hun we're having a boy just like my hubby and daughter predicted 💙💝😘

[Ainyb in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Yes I do! Just took newborn boy stuff down n girls newborn stuff down from attic! Just go from der 😂! Omg delighted for u that’s just amazing news yahoo happy shopping for blue now it’s great congratulations 💙💙💙

[AllWeNeedIsluv in reply to Ainyb]

Thanks lovely 💙

See your already set up. Now if you end up changing your mind you could find out just for the sake of it 💝😘💝

[Kate91]

this is my 3rd im chosing to find out as i have two boys and need to know if they are going to have to share as there is a seven year age gap but if i have a girl they are going to have to share

[Ainyb in reply to Kate91]

Yes of course I can c why u wud find out and if it was a girl u wud hav to start picking up all d pink stuff! Cz u wud hav everything blue 👍 best of luck x I wud find out too in that situation definitely xx