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I came on my period on the 14th of December 2017. I had unprotected sex with a man on the 17th whilst on my period. I then had sex with a different partner on the 24th of December and again with Him on the 30th of December I am now pregnant and done a clear blue test saying I’m three weeks plus.. which of the 2 will be my baby’s farther? Please help!!

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I’d say the second you prob ovulated around the 26/28th and you start counting weeks from the first day of your last period so could be right but DNA test after born to be totally sure I thinks the only way. Could always be a chance it’s the first guy.

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roxannacar

More likely second but DNA is the only 100% way to know as you could have ovulated early etc... not even ultrasound is precise enough with a week's difference!!

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Lyla_Hay

It sounds more likely to be the second assuming that you also had unprotected sex with him but we should remember that sperm can live for up to 5 days inside us so there is a chance that it is the first man. However, a DNA test is probably a wise thing to do within the first few days of baby's life so that you can know for sure from the outset which is best for everyone involved. This means that you probably should be honest right away that you are not 100% sure about paternity to the men in question. In addition, due to the nature of the circumstances, please tell your doctor so that you can be tested for any sexually transmitted diseases or infections. Unprotected sex with multiple partners means you're much more likely to pick up an infection and if left untreated could affect the baby. Wishing you well throughout the pregnancy! :)

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Lyndsaytw79

2nd

I ovulated in the middle of what I thought was my period and got pregnant. So it could be the first one. Good luck.

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linzyloo

Much more likely to be the second guy that you had sex with twice. Hope this is good news! I would definitely get a DNA test to be sure though. It's the kinda thing you have to be 100% sure about.

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