Trying to conceive

[myukie]

Hi guys

Im myukie and im trying to conceive..its been a year since im married and nothing is happening.

[JNDuce12-13]

Go to the doctors and get some blood tests done, they might pick up a hormone imbalance that could be slowing the process down. I’ve been trying with no luck, and so I had blood tests and a scan and they’ve found the issue and are putting me on tablets to help. Sometimes it can just take a while. But if you’ve been trying a year the doctors are more willing to investigate x

[Lucy51108]

Me and my partner were trying for over a year was getting all the apps and things u wee on to see when I was overlating it wasn't working so I just thought it's me or him we carnt have anymore then 2months later of not really trying I found out I was pregnant I'm now 14 weeks..i found just forgetting about it it can happen xx

[myukie]

Thanx for the reply...i also heard alot about the pill i just dont know if it will work or slow the process down more...oh and also im not so clued up about contraceptive so i just wanted to know whice pill it is.

[roxannacar in reply to myukie]

The pill which is the say as a contraceptive pill is to not have a baby. It does not help to have a baby

[Kerrchloe16]

It took me three years and i am almost 4 weeks pregnant so dont worry it takes time and the best time is when you are fertile

[myukie]

Im just so anxious and scared cause im only 23 never been on any contraceptive and now im really trying hard to fall pregnant.

[luv2017 in reply to myukie]

You are young and don’t get stressed . Did you tried having intercourses when ovulation ?? There are loads of app to help with your fertile window , if your periods are regular it’s easy to track ovulation. Eat healthy , start to take folic acid tablet , go for blood test and check your thyroid level .

[myukie]

Im a bit old school,so when i got married at the age of 23 thats the time when i broke my virginity even though i knew my husband for 5 years.my period has always been regular up until i had intercourse i started skipping a month to 2..i also used folic acid but whenever i start to take it i seem to get bladder infections.

[roxannacar in reply to myukie]

No reason why folic acid should give you water infections although frequent sex can give you cystitis.

Folic acid is very important as will Help avoid spinal problems with baby.

Get yourself an app to team your ovulation and fertile periods. Are you having regular sex?

Do not use contraceptive pills these prevent pregnancy not help it!

Make sure you have a wee after sex it help prevent cystitis, and when you do have a wee wipe front to back not the other way

[Pisolo86]

If I can suggest, as man with low count, ask to your husband to go to the gp and book a sperm test. 50% of the infertility is due to male factor, and worth investigate, since is also a very easy test. I have a low count but with this information I was prepared to need more time and also to think about my health. I was not very collaborative at the beginning, since I was thinking that I was fine. So get prepared to don't being listen immediately, but at the end He will do it. Best wishes!

[myukie in reply to Pisolo86]

Thank you so much ..i did not even think so far as my husband..the info is much appreciated.