My partner has 3 Kids I have 1, I’m finding myself getting increasingly stressed out by his 3, the constant shouting over each other, it’s always loud, they are messy... long story short they just aren’t as well behaved as my son or as well trained in terms of being tidy and clean etc... but I’m finding myself getting really annoyed with the youngest who is 6. He’s sly and often hurts my son and lies about it. His dad doesn’t seem to be willing to tell him off and condemns me if I do... yet he tells my son off we have been together long enough where all the kids are treated the same (in theory) we’ve wanted a baby of our own which I was all for, but since the kids have been getting me down so much I couldn’t think of anything worse than having to be stuck with it all, all the time. I don’t know if I’m just being over sensitive at the moment or if I just need to grow up a little haha, and stop being so petty. I just don’t know how it’ll ever get better. I don’t want to put my life and plans on hold till his kids are older.