I have a large family, 4 children, 3 eldest are step children, they spend 3 nights a week at their mums rest with us. Our 7 and 9 year old still both wet the bed, 7yr old boy tells us if he has, and some times goes through a few weeks of not doing it at ours but will then start again and do it most nights. 9yr old is less frequent but still more than she should at that age, but she doesn’t tell us, she will come down in same pj’s, or put her pj’s in her bed or draw and not say anything. She’ll hide her underwear. I have to check her bunk bed each morning or her pants when she’s gone to school to check. What Can I do! All health care professionals say it’s more common than I realise. But it doesn’t help have so much washing etc... it’s frustrating. What Can I do?