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Hello, Im 18 years old and i just literally found out im pregnant 2 hours ago, im scared, iv been crying all morning and afternoon. Im so scared but i dont believe in abortion, im supposed to be going to uni in september and im currently working as a carer. My boyfriend is 27 of 8 months and we werent even planning for a baby. Im on the pill and i still got pregnant i dont know what to do i feel sick to my stomach, please help

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Charlaina29

Do what you feel is best it will be a shock to the pair of you. If your worries speak to a gp and they can talk you through it

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N-gulavic in reply to Charlaina29

Thank you for your help, iv been through all that.. and iv decided to keep it :') x

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Babyelliott

Do what your heart is saying.. Think it through and take the time to let it sink in just a little bit.. You have time to think about what you want to do and only you can decide that. I know when I got pregnant with my first, I was 19. Wasn't planned and I was so scared and nervous. But as I thought and considered everything, I grew more and more excited. It's an adjustment and things will b a little scary, but I don't feel I would have ever been completely prepared. I am 34 now & am currently preg w my 4th, life has a way of working itself out and things do get better. I know time isnt the easiest thing to take in right now but time does help.. Give urself a week or so, talk to someone your close to and have them help you through this time. Things will be OK. Good luck hunny

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N-gulavic in reply to Babyelliott

Thank you! Its taken me long and a lot of tears but iv decided to keep it, my heart wouldnt want to kill a little being in me and iv gotten all good support from family and friends xxx

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Babyelliott in reply to N-gulavic

Awe, I am happy for you. How are things going for you..

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LindsayB24

Do what you really think is best. Go and see a midwife for a chat and professional advice and include you boyfriend to. Good luck Hun. Xx

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Zoe310798

Hi Hun if you want a chat please feel free to message me, I fell pregnant just before I turned 18 and I too decided to keep my baby. She is 10 weeks old now. If you want to talk to somebody who can relate then please do send me a message as I know it is very very difficult xxx

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N-gulavic in reply to Zoe310798

I will thank you so much iv been seeking for some advice from someone who can relate xxxx

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Zoe310798 in reply to N-gulavic

Please message me any time you need someone xxx

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