Ectopic Pregnancy, am i paranoid?

[littleray]

I came of the pill about a month ago and i did and still do intend to start it again, but i have been carless about using protection with my boyfriend. My hormones have been allover the place and my breasts slightly tender. My period was four days late and when it came today it wasn't like it usually is. The blood seems old, as expected from day 4-5. I do have a dull pain in my side and i am unsure of what this all means.

Any help is appreciated

[roxannacar]

If you stop your pill your period will get messy you will get hormonal symptoms etc. this is quite expected. You might want to take a pregnancy test tho