And I have been drinking heavily like only on the weekends and I smoke cigarettes too. And I had no idea that I was pregnant I thought I was just getting fat n stuff. I just had my 30th birthday party I turned 30 on August 10 and I party and party hard of course made the record of eating all 30 Jell-O shots on that Saturday like two weeks ago. And now I'm starting to feel hardness and fluttering in my stomach. I just had a baby boy on July 31st 2014. And now I'm scared that I am pregnant and my 2nd child boy or a girl I dunno yet for sure what's going on yet I didn't schedule a doctors appointment yet I don't go in till next week. ..... They didn't schedule me a day yet. But I'm really scared that my baby is gunna be retarded or something because I had no idea nor systems. I haven't had my period since May of this year that's when I skipped but I thought all this stress with my financial problems and stuff is what caused me not to have my period. Please I need some answers if u think my baby is gunna be okay or is it all to late.... Because my body nore the baby isn't having issues.....must be a strong baby like me.