A week ago I found out I was pregnant. The father is someone I was dating briefly in January it ended as quick as it started, We lost contact and carried on with our lives until today.
During this week of me knowing and taking everything in, thinking long and hard about bringing it in to this world I decided I could do this. I have a very supportive family a good living situation, supportive friends and financially ok. I know this would be hard but I would be prepared and plan this well.
I told the father this morning and as expected he was in complete shock, I told him to have a think let it sink in then call me back. Later he called me and said he was coming over to my place. He turned up and was saying things like "You can't do this to me", "how are you going to support this", "you can't bring a baby up without a father, it will end up with so many problems", "I am going to be seen as such a shit father". And it went on and on all negative and all about him. Now I am complety stuck I don't want to get rid of this baby but he is so upset and is just thinking the worst. He thinks I am naive and have my head in the clouds. When I am 100% not I know this is going to change my life so much all my plans completely wiped away. I just really don't know what to do now.