I am very nearly 11 weeks pregnant. I finally got my scan appointment letter today and its 2 weeks later than I thought it would be.
I've had a misscarraige before and I am very nearly 40 and worried about the potential consequences of this and I was looking forward to the reassurance, or otherwise, of the scan so am not happy about the delay.
We have not told anybody that I am pregnant and were planning to wait until after the scan. I'm already fed up with giving excuses for feeling rubbish all the time (while getting noticeably fatter!).
Should I phone up to ask if its possible to have the scan earlier? Or am I being neurotic? Should i just chill out and go with the flow, which may include telling people and dealing with any potential consequences?
Any advise gratefully received!