I need some advice, my dad has been coming around every week since my boy was born- before that I hadn't seen him for 12years- we have never spoke about the past and don't really want to go back there- sounds horrid but I have gone through morning my dad so I little feeling for him- I know I'm doing the right thing letting him see his grandchild but it's getting me down- my dad turns up, hardly speaks, watches me struggle while I try and cook or clean with my little one wanting my attention- even with a gentle hint ask granddad to play or way don't you go outside together so I can finish the housework. It's now getting bad as my dad expects feeding every week and I'm struggling to avoid this- what with child are costs as I work full time. I was thinking of asking him not to come each week but my partner said it was cruel. I really don't know what to do- I'm starting to Fred Saturdays- and I'm made to feel guilty when I want an hour or two to myself. My 20weeks with my second child so think that is adding to my dilemma- advice needed what should I do
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