hi im a size 20 mammy-2-be with a BMI of 40
i still feel fit and healthy - but i often get spoken down to by health professionals
especially by the anaesthetist i saw at the hospital the other week - he basically had me grouped as FAT and to make his life easier he wanted me to have an epidural / c-section
which i dont want - i wanna go as natural as i can (unless i need help)
but he giggled and laughed when i told him why i didnt want this and went on about my weight and made me feel like i have no rights
has anyone else had this or been made to feel as small as i did??