My partner hasn't engaged with me or our baby this pregnancy. I'm 34w and have been quite poorly thought out. Our son was born sleeping last year at 17w and this has been weighing heavily on us through out this pregnancy. My partner refuses to buy anything for the baby or make any preparations for her arrival. I lost the plot yesterday as I've had enough! All he said is he can't cope as she might be born with something wrong with her. I want to understand but I just feel mad. Am I being unfair ?