I'm 19 weeks 1 day and I can't make me mind up to find out the sex. Loads people say it's a nice surprise but my other half really wants to know. He is rubbish at keeping secrets so he can't find out and not me lol. I think knowing would be nice can refer to baby as he/ she and grow a closer bond. Plus get loads of blue or pink. Hmmm I love the idea of a surprise thou and just think I'll regret it of I find out but another 20 weeks is a long time to wait.