Sad news!

Sad news as I have miscarried at 6 weeks. I know it's not long but we were so full of hope and excitement particularly my husband as he has no children. It seems such low odds for me to get pregnant naturally because of my age. Why is it that you notice so many baby ads and babies seem everywhere when you have just lost your hope of one! Feel very low today. Not told my other children but they do t understand why I am so upset and irritable. It was going to be such a good year with moving house and getting married! I suppose it was just not meant to be :((

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  • Oh I'm so sorry, don't give up xx

  • Sorry to hear this :( xx

  • Sorry to hear this Hun x

  • I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. Hang on in there and don't give up, older mums can still do it xxx

  • Am sorry to hear your bad news, I had 6 miscarriages the last one was at 19 week so I know your pain, I am just a few weeks pregnant now and I woke up this morning and wondering if I am still pregnant, who knows what you are going through unless they have been through it. I don't have any kids, so it's a constant struggle, I thought I had friends but I am surprise to know that they were never there for me during my time of grieving. I wasn't expecting anyone to take up my burden or drop in to say hi but a phone call with a few words of support would be fine with me.

    I don't want to sound off topic but it's still fresh in my mind. I try not think about what had pass and gone but I just want to be focusing on this present pregnancy. I will be an older mom but I never dear look at my age and the reason for that is age only play a minor factor in pregnancy. My mom had me when she was 41 and I am quite a fine and normal person, so i can't see why I cannot have mind at my 43. I will never stop until the body gives up. My friends only see me fit to be their kids god-parent but not fit to be a parent myself. That's what is upsetting more than anything else. I will never be their kids god-parent , I will never adopt or will I play any role in anyones childs life, if i am not fit to bring forth my own child then I cannot be fit enough to be a part of anyones child life. Don't you think I know your pain ? Yes I do.

  • So sorry for your loss! Dont give up, ive had 2 miscarriages (both early) and now pregnant again, but im terrified and hoping everythins ok (im 8 weeks). Please dont loose hope, doesnt matter how old you are, you still can still have a successful pregnancy. Allow yourself and your husbad to grieve also.

    Hope this helps

    Xx

  • Thank you all for your commets. It has given me strength and renewed hope and determination. xx:)

  • So sad and sorry for your loss hun, I know what you mean; babies and nappy adverts seem to be everywhere when you've just lost one..... I've had 4 miscarriages in all, 3 before my first daughter who I had at 28, then another miscarriage at 38 and I had my second daughter at 42, so please don't give up hope, little miracles do happen, thinking of you xxx

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