Third time lucky...!: Hey ladies... - Pregnancy and Par...

Pregnancy and Parenting Support

58,551 members16,926 posts

Third time lucky...!

BabyJ profile image
12 Replies

Hey ladies,

Just a update, after having a second miscarraige in April, i am currently 5 weeks pregnant today! Yes it was very quick (clearly im VERY fertile!) and i am wxcited but neevous aswell. I hope this time things go on as i really dpnt wanna go through a miscarriage again. I wasnt even expecting to conceive this quick! The fiancee is bery happy and nervous too. Hes making aure im ok and checking on me every second (which is a little annoying) but very sweet of him.

I havent booked to see the midwife yet as i dont wanna look like a fool for the thrid time if it goes wrong again (shes not very sympathetic) but i think this time (hopefully) things will go ok considering my sympotms are stronger than ever.

Sickness os all day everyday, i eat im ok, i dont eat i feel like death, my back hurts, i feel tired and sick all the time! Any tips to help will be much appreciated :)

I shall be keeping update on my progress and stuff and any questions im bound to ask, so please dont find me annoying!

Fingers crossed eerything will be fine this time (god willing)

Xx

Written by
BabyJ profile image
BabyJ
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
12 Replies

Arrrrh! im so happy for you & hope this really will be 3rd time lucky for you. if you get to the point of just feeling sick all the time try eating something like "ritz" cracker biscuits. ( life safer for me when in early stages) :-)

take care & keep us posted of progress. xx

Armywag profile image
Armywag

Great stuff!! Fingers and toes crossed for you :) x

Stace87 profile image
Stace87

Get a sickness band bbe they work wonders x

Allyemo1985 profile image
Allyemo1985

Orh Hun well done.. I bet your over the moon yet worried to high hell. My fingers are crossed for you lovely keep us updated. Will you have an early scan I'm hoping since this has happened twice before the doctors and midwifes will want to keep a good eye on you xx

Peanut1 profile image
Peanut1

That is amazing news, congratulations.

I'm in a slightly similar position after losing our baby earlier this year to trisomy 13. I'm also about 5 weeks, so I understand the excitement and apprehension you're feeling. I called to book midwife appt yesterday, same as you felt it was a little early, but I was told that since I'd had complications last time they would like keep a closer eye on me this time and they sent me to see the gp first, so it would be worth you speaking to them as I'd imagine they old want to keep a close eye on you too.

Congratulations againxx

Congrats but don't be silly about not booking an early scan, you need to go and book it now. You health is important, so don't worry about what midwife will be thinking, they are only there to make numbers. I have 6 M/C and now am on my two weeks wait to do my pregnancy test and I will be having an early scan as soon as it's confirm, when you have repeated M/C they have to do early scan, so get yourself together and go and have one done.. Remember they will looking to see that its viable, so it will give you a little peace of mind. Please check for infection in your urine also, I am speaking from all my experiences and I don't have any kids, so as you may know that been pregnant now would be the icing on the cake for me, not to mention I am 43 yrs old. If you can afford to go private and get the early scan done then I would advise you do it but you can also call the midwife and ask for it to be done base on your pass history. Don't let then tell you nonsense about waiting until 3 months, with that been said if your are going to have a M/C an early or late scan will not stop it but I think it's the right thing to do. All the best and I will let you know what my results are in the next few days. LOL.

Woohoo congrats xx

Megzey profile image
Megzey

Ahhhhhh yeay BabyJ your back. Just get an appointment booked in, you know what they are like for being busy you might not get a booking appointment for ages but they can keep a closer eye on you if they need to.

ashy2005 profile image
ashy2005

yay congrats :) I also had two miscarriages so I know how nervous you are feeling.. in my case it has been third time lucky and I really hope everything works out for you this time :) xxx

BabyJ profile image
BabyJ

Thanks so much guys, i will call the doctors first thing monday and get checked out. I just hope its all ok :) x

Ance81 profile image
Ance81

Congratulations what a lovely news. I have my fingers crossed for you that all will be well.

I would say too that you need to push and get early scan, hopefully they see you asap.

Look forward to hear from you again :-)

BabyJ profile image
BabyJ in reply to Ance81

Thank you very much :) i will keep you informed xx

You may also like...

first time and panicking

regards to booking me in to help me but in the mean time I need help I really don’t know what to...

2nd time mum, 12 years later

though. My body feels a lot different now. I am very bloated and that hasn't died down since I...

severe morning sickness

morning sickness since week 6. I lost about 5kg in the first 2 weeks and was being sick multiple...

Life with a 10 week old baby

guilty about this. I try to do bath time every other day at the same time to get into a routine but...

tmi- constipation & pregnancy

Sorry for a tmi post-- good morning, this is very embarrassing to post for me however no one...