Beena long time...

[BabyJ]

Hi girls!

Its been a long time but after suffering my second miscarraige, i just needed time to greive before i came back on here. So please dont think i was being anti social or ignoring anyone!

Me and my fiancee are trying again for another child, but we are waiting until it happens. When it happens it will (if that sentance made sense?!) i beleive inthings happening for a reason, so what ever the reason o me miscarraying again, i guess it was a good one. We have just trecently moved house to somewhere which is far better than the last place we was, and we are able to save more money. I guess thus could of been the reason.

I would like to set up a group, where women can meet face to face and talk ad support each orher on there miscarraige, as i think there is not enough support out there. Its just an idea that im working on.

Ill be back on sharing experiences and listening to any advice given and also to help if i can, as we can all help each other in any way.

I am currenty taking folic acid and baby asprin.

Hopefuly ill have some good news soon, and we can start a happy family!

[Skyblueboston]

Welcome back babe xxxxx

[BabyJ in reply to Skyblueboston]

Thanks x

[Hidden]

That's a great idea, my dear friend has sadly gone thru this recently... there def isn't a lot of support out there and the best people are others that have gone thru it too..all the best to you...and we're watching this space! Xxx

[BabyJ in reply to Hidden]

Thanks! I hope it will all work out ok xx

[ashy2005]

Sorry to hear what you have been through, I have had two miscarriages and being the only one who experienced this I had no one to talk to I felt very alone, although i had my partner he was also going through things aswel to be honest thats why I joined this group when i fell pregnant again, to talk with other women and reassure myself that what i was feeling was normal.. however a face to face group is a brilliant idea It definately would have helped me..

Good luck in your new home and hoping you have good news for us soon xxx

[BabyJ in reply to ashy2005]

Thanks very much for tge support. Im quite optimistic in life, although i do get upset, i try and make the positive out of a situation.

I thought face to face group would be a bit stupid to be honest. Like noone would do it, but after speaking to a few prople, they said they love the idea. Im just putting ideas together or how and where ill do it. I might do it so i go round different areas instead of one place, as everyone needs someone to talk to somewhere

Yeah hopefully you'll hear good news soon xx

[Allyemo1985]

Welcome back... That's a very positive note to lead by... 'If its meant to happen it will' look forward to hearing more from you.

[BabyJ in reply to Allyemo1985]

Thank you xx

[laukb87]

I think its a great idea. I am so glad to hear somebody else able to be positive after such an awful time. I have also had 2 missed miscarriages. Hopefully we will both be 3rd time lucky x

[ShelleyHarris1981]

Ladies never give up hope after 2 m/c's. My husband and I suffered 2 back to back m/c's in 2011. It is, as you all know, heartbreaking. At the time it seems to unfair and unjust. Sometimes friends just dont understand the pain unless they have been there too. None of my friends had so we had lots of "it wasnt meant to be" and "there was clearly something wrong woth it" which at the time made me so so angry. Your support group idea is a fantastic one. For us it was third time lucky and as I write this im watching my 4 month old little man sleep soundly. I too took baby aspirin tjis time around but at 20 weeks we found out I was Type 1 diaberic which is why I lost oir pther two as my diabetes was out of control unbeknown to us. Because I had been cutting out everything and anythi.h on our 3rd attempt I had brought down my blood sugar levels to help carry successfully.anyhow Im wittering on now ladies!

Good luck and love to each one of you going down this often scary but amazing road again!

Shelley x

[Thirdtimelucky]

I too had two misscaradges back to back, I gave up my job, maternity leave and redundancy pay, but it was all worth it I now have a beautiful little girl, so please please please don't any of you give up hope, I definitely think that women who go through this heartbreak, should have a lot more support, I know lots of women who have gone through this ordeal, and a lot of us never get the chance to talk about their emotions or to grieve properly, sometimes women aren't treated with the sympathy or tack which they deserve either whilst in hospital. So supporting each other is a top notch idea!