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thank goodness things change one day to the next

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What seems so very dark today will probably change by tomorrow,there are so many variables in a 24 hour time span.pain comes and goes,and so do all of the symtoms of ms.but stress seems to stay with us forever,different stress.We would still have that even is we didn't have ms.We would probably handle it better.Stress is such a negative factor with ms.Easy for me to say as I sat on the edge of my bed yesterday sobbing so hard I thought I would never stop.I was mourning for the life that was not to be and feeling I had no value anymore.I must have huge lesions in my brain that controls emotions.that "what if" mentality has got to go.so today I woke up and it was like yesterday never existed and I feel great,so I will go on and do what I can, and leave life stresses at the curb,"ms can't catch me yet"!

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greaterexp

Thank you for being so honest about your feelings. It feels so good to vent or cry, but it’s dangerous to stay in that mode for long. I’m glad you’re on the other side of that day.

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pamgarner in reply to greaterexp

thank goodness it doesn't last,read something very true today,"If you don't heal your cut,you will bleed on people that didn't cut you" how true, how true.so we dry up the tears and move forward.:)

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falalalala

I'm glad you are having a better day :)

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pamgarner in reply to falalalala

I can always count on you to make me smile daily,you have a funny,wicked sense of humor never know what you are going to post next, you are an adventure:)

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falalalala in reply to pamgarner

Thanks,that is sweet of you to type! :D

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Juleigh21

I’m sorry you had such an awful day yesterday. When I need help from others, I feel so useless and helpless. But my family and friends seem to love me regardless of my MS. I mourn for the person I use to be but I look around me and know it could be so much worse. I’m glad today is better. I now have a therapist who I vent my anger and issues to. Many people tell me the I have such a good attitude. I wonder what my therapist would say😆??

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pamgarner in reply to Juleigh21

I have an appt coming up with a talk therpist,haven't been yet.Her pen and paper will be very busy I am sure:)

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Juleigh21 in reply to pamgarner

Good for you! An excellent place to vent! Try to leave “it” in her office when you leave.

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jimeka

Today is a new day. Good post Pam, thank you 😊

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pamgarner in reply to jimeka

thank goodness,that is over,hope it is not like a bad weed and try to come back.thanks for your support,just 1 of those days

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jimeka in reply to pamgarner

I have corrected my post, sorry, predictive text can get you in trouble, 😂

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Be good to yourself, pamgarner :-D

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pamgarner in reply to carolek572

have to be and just say stop to myself,I don't get down for too long thank you

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