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Hi everyone im foloowing ur posts my like button not workn right?...well my ms n cognetive issues are a real big mess again has i told yall tht duplex one level is beginnin to stress me out she said could hv 2 therapy dogs ..i have 3..but now she says one..i cant let them go..i was divorced in 82 she wants divorce papers they are impossibleto get court didnt keep m tht long n my hubby passed. Try telling her that..i didnt mark na on all spouces income n jobs becuz i wasnt applying with a spouce she sent it back to me ..10 pages of if anythin blank put na in line..it ask if cash on hand i had 40 when i filled out she wants know why i had 40 bucks..my son on my phone n insurance plan comes to 100 taken out of checkin account she wznts to know wht tgt money for really wow never had such snoopy stuff . Furthmore dr wrote service dogs. I talk to this lady she said fine i said well u have 2 weeks am i passed or whats goingon..its caused me so much stress i cant think..i didnt wNt handicap unit as no tub and i had told her that as i have soak n cool water idk this company out of a big corporate thing only advantage realky is washer dryer free. So im now in a big emotional mess and i waited 2half years for these places and it sounds like a prison too me..help i need make decisions..

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Midgey_Midge06 profile image
Midgey_Midge06

I have no idea what to tell u as to making decision. A free washer and dryer sounds great. But ya very nosey. I will keep u in my prayers that all works out. 🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜

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luvhair in reply to Midgey_Midge06

Agree think i should stay were im at just a gut feeling..

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to luvhair

Go with ur gut instinct i always say

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Peruzzot

A home should never feel like a prison. Is there a way your son could talk to this lady or another family member? I also don't understand why a land lord needs to see divorce papers at all. Search for a local office that deals with disability and housing disputes to see if they can help resolve at least some of the conflicts. Try starting with the county court house. They should be able to at least get you started in the right direction.

Hope it all works out for you.

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Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Peruzzot

I think they need to ask cuz if there is a husband, they need to include his income. I only base this off what my dad went thru to get my mom into a memory care facility. But they shud be able to obtain those records themselves if u sign a release form. It wud be much easier that way

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luvhair in reply to Midgey_Midge06

Thank you yes agree but i had already put divoreced..so i just dont know..think i just stay were im at idk..

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luvhair in reply to Peruzzot

Thank you..

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greaterexp

Is there a housing ombudsman that would help you? You're sure in my prayers.

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luvhair in reply to greaterexp

Idk i never heard of that ..what is it?

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greaterexp in reply to luvhair

There are often people in agencies or separately who act as mediators and advocates for those the agency serves. Not everyone has them.

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luvhair in reply to greaterexp

Ok ty

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