Funeral continued

[Midgey_Midge06]

Well i am going to my mothers funeral after all. My fiancé is gonna pick me up and bring me home same day. And we r bringing the dogs.

[Babslover]

Midgey_Mige06: I’m so glad to hear that you are going with your fiancé and your dog. Just for your peace of mind to be there. Your relatives can deal with this one thing and deal with it. Praying that all goes well for you 🙏

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Babslover]

Thank u. Its gonna suck mo matter what i do so may as well piss them all off and be there for my dad

[Babslover in reply to Midgey_Midge06]

You got that right. Your parents raised you want and need to be there.

[MS_Indestructible in reply to Midgey_Midge06]

AWESOME, that's the MS spirit, piss the all off, they deserve it. And you can smile the whole time.

[janetb1968]

Good im really glad u are going xx 😊

[bxrmom]

So happy you are going to go!! Good for you. Please let us know how everything goes after you are back home and relaxed.

Jessie

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to bxrmom]

Totally will do

[Fancy1959]

Midgey_Midge06, it's Fancy1959. I'm g lad for you that you worked everything out. I think if you would have missed the funeral a part of you would not have got to say your final goodbye and you might have regretted.

God bless that your fiance is supportive of you and understands for connection to your dogs. I'm glad you posted us again because we have missed you. Remember we are only a post away and are always here to listen or here if you need to vent your tears or problems at somebody who truly understands. Until we speak again please take care. Remember that together we are stronger!

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Fancy1959]

Thank u. This has been a wonderful place for me to get feed back and so much support.

[MS_Indestructible in reply to Midgey_Midge06]

that's right and we WILL be here for you. Remember to wear that beautiful smile of yours

[Sukie427]

YOU GO GIRL! And be strong! So sorry for your loss, and your evil sister's attitude on top of it. Thoughts and prayers are with you! Sukie427

[Doubled51]

Good for you. Your dad will be glad to see you and your mother would be proud.

Donnie

[jimeka]

I am so relieved and pleased that you are going. Hope and pray that it all goes well.

[Midgey_Midge06]

Ya my fiancé just called - we r back to not going. I am so tired of the emotional rollercoaster. I am honestly kinda over it want to move on

[Qt314grl in reply to Midgey_Midge06]

Oh no! What happened?

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Qt314grl]

He cant get the time off from work. We had it all scheduled before but its ok. I finally got a good nites sleep last nite cuz i am no worried abot what everyone else is doing. I am back to focusing on my health again

[Fancy1959]

Midgey_Midge06, it's Fancy1959. I'm so sorry, you do not need this added stress right now with your mother's passing. Just take a deep breath in try to focus on yourself and your needs and do something to de-stress yourself today and tomorrow. I hate this is happening to you. I'll say lots of prayers for you and your mother. And just for you on sending a big electronic hugs to this connection because I feel like you really needed at this moment. Take care.💕🛐

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to Fancy1959]

Thank u. Hugs back.

I am gonna be ok. I have made peace with it in my mind. And i talked to my mom. I know she can hear me. Its all gonna be ok

[janetb1968]

Oh heck! I hope u are ok but under the circumstances it's going to be hard. Bless u and lots of hugs from snowy Blighty ❄❄❄❄❄❄❄❄

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to janetb1968]

Thank u. Its freezing here too. Its been in the 20s which is not normal for texas at all

[janetb1968 in reply to Midgey_Midge06]

Definitely not normal for Texas sending u warm hugs from bitterly cold England xxxx 🌨❄🌨❄🌨❄❄❄❄

[goatgal]

Midgey_Midge06. My heart is soothed to learn that you will go to the funeral.

Your story brought back old pain. When my father died forty plus years ago, my sister called me the day before the funeral though my father had died several days before. Neither my mother or my brother told me; I never learned why. The funeral was in Calif. I was living in Delaware. My then husband was unsupportive, my son had just turned four, my daughter was 10 months old and still nursing. Every June I think of my father, whom I loved very much, and ponder the old pain...of not being able to say goodbye. I am glad you have found the courage, strength, love, support (and forgiveness) to attend this funeral and wish your mother's spirt Godspeed.

[pihokken]

So sorry that you are on this emotional rollacoaster. Sending you big hugs!

[bavery207]

Midgey_Midge06 so sorry for the emotional roller coaster you are on. I believe your mother knows what you are going through and knows you would be there if you could. I think she will forgive you, now you need to forgive yourself!

[LissaH]

I'm happy to read that you are going. Good for you and good luck. You only get one chance to say good-bye and you have every right to be there just as much as the rest of your family. God bless

[kdali]

YAHOO! 🎉

[mrsmike9]

Oh, for Pete's sake! I hope you can find someone else to take you! (If you lived near me, I'd take you in a heartbeat.)

[Midgey_Midge06 in reply to mrsmike9]

Thanks. Its awful