Anyone else with this problem? My husband's dad killed himself 14 years ago and my husband is still devastated his mother dosnt bother with him is his 4 brothers my husband was 14 at the time and his brothers were all under 8 years old, so he was left to look after them while his mum drank and went out with different men every weekend. It was my husband's bday yesterday and his mum didn't even phone we have 3 children and she has never bothered with them. It upsets him terribly with Me having depression I'm not much help with comforting him sadly now his youngest brother had started self harming and is dying in hospital needing a liver transplant my husband is in bits as he feels he's let his dad down in looking after his brothers in desperation he phoned and told his mum on Monday about the brother as she is next of kun she said she dosnt care and will not be at the hospital. It's so awful I'm so close to attacking this selfish bitch!! What do we do??