Having no hope Trigger warning

[Sholay09]

Hello I am feeling quite anxious about going into the new year because I still got the feeling that nothing will ever change for the better for me and I am still worried about what the new year is going to bring. Also I really hate it when no one seems to care about me or understand me at all and this is really wrong and bad as I should not be treated unfairly or differently from everyone else as we all have the same emotions, needs and wants. I know that we are all different but still it is not nice for anyone to be treated horribly either and unfortunately I am still being treated horribly now and I desperately want things to change and for me to finally have a good life but I feel like I don't know what to do anymore as I sometimes feel like I don't want to be on this earth anymore as I feel like just giving up now trying to get people to help me and understand me. I just want people to say helpful and kind things to me and I want kind and caring people around me too.😭

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Sholay

Can you explain in what context you feel the way you do, are you working or other ?

BOB

[Sholay09 in reply to Hidden]

Well I go to college

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Sholay

What are your real gripes, the problem is when we mix with people we do not know we cannot expect people these days to care for us, that is part of life and I do not know how to address the situation. If we try and push ourselves upon others a negativity may result

We cannot force people to like us, although given time and friendship things may change. All I can suggest is that you listen to others and also converse in a natural way, especially try not to push yourself upon others friendship, is a rare gift. Most relationships take time to develop. You sound very young. Also to much in a hurry

BOB

[MAS_Nurse]

Hi Sholay 09, I am sorry you are feeling so unhappy. Bob has sent you a helpful reply. I agree that friendship is a rare gift and most relationships take time to develop. You replied that you go to college. Are there any clubs/activities you could join in with there, so you could share a mutual interest with others? This is often a good way of developing friendships. Many colleges have a counselling service where you could arrange an appointment to discuss your difficulties with a counsellor. We care about you on this community and you are not alone. Our members will try and support you as much as we can. In the meantime, if you are feeling distressed, [and are in the UK] please call----

The Samaritans Freephone 116 123 24 hour helpline 7 days a week

If you live outside of the UK and are distressed, please have a look at the crisis support helplines on the pinned posts section of the screen. Are any other members able to help Sholay09, please?Do keep posting on the forum and let us know how you are getting on. Take care and best wishes