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I am 17 years old and ever since I was very young I think I may have struggled with anxiety. I am now a mum to a three month old baby and unfortunately my babys dad left us when I got pregnant. Ever since I feel like I have lost control of how to deal with how I am feeling, I am worried that if I talk to the doctor they might take my baby away or think that I am a bad parent. I get extremely anxious over things that I shouldn't such as going to work, talking to managers or family occasions. I don't know if this is normal but I am afraid to talk about it and I don't want to go to the doctor for no reason nor do I have any idea what to say but I miss my old self and just want to be happy again and enjoy this time with my baby:(

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Krazie

Dear one, have you thought about seeing doctor about the way you are feeling? There is not much chance of having your baby taken away, unless you are being abusive or neglectful.

It is pretty common to have postpartum depression after the birth of a baby. Only a doctor can help you with that. Also, you have a lot of responsibility for one so young. A support group of young, single mothers might be of help. To make friends with others with are in similar circumstances as you. Just having others around who understand can be of tremendous help.

A baby is such a precious blessing. Congratulations!!

Best of wishes to you both! :)

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hypercat54

Hi if they took babies away from mothers who suffered from anxiety there would not be many at home! Krazie is right what s/he is saying. x

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Mygirl13

Please go to your doctor they are there to help and you are not alone I promise you that more and more people are going through the same feelings you will get back to your happy self with the right help and advice sending you big hugs take care of you and your wee baby

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MAS_Nurse

Hi there,

Welcome to our supportive community. I supported the very good advice the forum members have given to you. You are struggling with a heavy load and you need help. Go and speak to your GP, and also, your Health Visitor as they will not be fazed by how you are feeling, and can support your professionally. Take a look too at this info regarding anxiety and mental health during your perinatal/postnatal phase, these experiences are very common:

Mind UK: Postnatal and perinatal mental health:

mind.org.uk/information-sup...

National Childbirth Trust (NCT):

nct.org.uk/professional/res...

Helpline: 0300 330 0700

Also keep these crisis support helplines handy:

The Samaritans Tel: 116 123 [24 hours line]

NHS: 999 [Emergencies]

NHS 111 [Non-Emergencies]

MIND UK charity: Helpline Tel: 0300 123 3393

Keep in touch, we care about you and want to support you as best we can.

Take care,

MAS Nurse

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