I Feel So Lost In My Thoughts

[Bethany_rachel]

I feel so lost in my thoughts, I feel like I need a guy to want me to be worthy, I love a guy who doesn't want me and it's making me feel so down about myself. I just need the way out or a path at least to lead me there because I've been struggling for 3 years now trying to find a guy to just want me and I can't take it anymore, surely I do not need this?

[sweetiepye]

It's lonely when you have love to give and you want love back but there is no one in that role. You may want it and be ready but you can't make it happen. That doesn't mean it won't happen. Someday , when you least expect it, it will happen. So don't stay home and brood. You won't meet anyone there. Go to places where the kind of person you want would be. If you like jocks go to a sports bar , if you're a more serious type try book stores. The important thing to remember is that you don't need a man to complete you so don't settle for less than you want. Pam

[Strongheartforever]

This is advice/feedback from a woman in her 40’s who used to feel like you do now. It’s meant to be helpful somehow: I’m sure you’re young and beautiful and used to/addicted to getting the attention of men. That’s not such an admirable thing because men are hard-wired to check out cute chicks. Doesn’t help your life, heart or soul. Your body wants you to do what you’re doing though, we are hard-wired to attract lovely men. But your mind isn’t mature enough yet to know that deep love is what you really want and need. I guess my point is you’re in a tough position, in-between youth and maturity, kinda in the twilight zone. Feeling lonely, yet sexy and wanting love. Bewildered about the power of your beauty and sexuality, you have so much power, yet it’s not getting you the man you really want. The right man will come along and there will be no doubts that he wants you. He will fall at your feet and you’ll fall at his. Leave room for magic. Keep your dignity intact. You are worthy of love. Don’t settle for less. And work on you being worthy and valuable and confident in your own eyes first. Build that resume of sharing your true gifts with the world. Find your passions. Make someone’s life better with your gift and then any man will want you. You’re growing and it feels unsettling, unnerving, like you’re unraveling. It’s your butterfly wings. The colors are gonna be more than you can imagine. Keep the faith, there are many wonderful men out there. Find one who deserves your colors!

[Danuck]

Not sure how you cope, I stopped love anything years ago, just don't want to, more to worry about, I got bipolar, and a really bad SPD, make the same wish as me, one day one will truly understand what it's like in our heads, hugs

[GMason]

You don't need to prove yourself with the right person, they'll like you for you

[GMason]

If someone cannot want you at your worst, they do not deserve you at your best

[GMason]

You have one now

[menace6969]

hi,

im in the same boat im in love with a girl that doesnt want me (I think im plan B or C) and it feels like the carrot is dangling in front of me like im on a show of "fooled you again, muhahaha" and theres sequels to that show I tell yah lol but you know what Ive realised , Im not in love with myself! hell the hell did I not think of me for once. Ive always done things for other people putting myself last. Not Good. I think you just need to focus on yourself and love yourself, you dont need anyone but you at this moment. Once you get that sorted (it might not be a walk in the park) you will have men falling at your feet. Youd be able to pick who ever you want and by looking at that picture of you DAMNN girlfriend you ll be on Fire! but then again when you do find yourself mabye you wont even be interested, you may chase a career or go traveling the world, invent a business etc. priorities may change