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You won't believe people can not talk to you for months and feel they can call whenever and expect you to give your attention. I seriously don't know why your calling me you have a girlfriend call her if you can't sleep. You left me and I've been through a struggle already to forget you don't come back to create problems. I need help I feel like it's starting all over again the pain and sadness I don't wanna go down that road again :'( :( I'm just fed up I just want something to be good or I just wanna be happy.

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Well at least a consolation that this person is not happy, I mean don't you feel kind of vindicated?

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Tbh I don't but I just wanna forget about them they've put me through some sad times

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Then just block the number

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Thank you will do

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Hey CharmerBlueGirl,

OMG how dare he? He has no right whatsoever to ask anything of you! Block his number, block him on social media, cut his access to you. That is the best advice I can give. He made his decision and now he has to live with that, just like you had to. He is not your problem anymore and his problems are not yours to bare. Do not give in to old feelings of wanting to support or help, it is not your job now. Your job is to build yourself up and find your path in life. Your needs and dreams are important, he is a fading memory. Him contacting you, especially at night, because HE can't sleep....that is so arrogant and disrespectful. Your life, your rules, your time and your privacy, he has right to none of it. Be strong and go forward, don't look back. he is not your responsibility. BigHugs!

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Thanks for the advise and I'd have to try my very best to take it stay blessed :)

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