Something's really wrong withe

You don't have to lie to me all the time to make me "feel better" lying won't do anything for me it'll just make me feel worse

You don't have to lie to me telling me that I'm "attractive" when I'm really not at all I'm the ugliest person that's alive

If I actually was attractive I wouldn't be single and I would have at least one friend

[MAS_Nurse]

Hello noonewantsme, Welcome to this caring community. You are not alone and folks on here are very supportive, and many will have felt as you do. You conversation seems to be with or about some else, can you clarify your situation a little bit? True friendship isn't based how 'attractive' a person is, but on who we are inside and finding people who share similar interests, ideals, hopes and experiences. Sometimes when we feel bad about ourselves inside, we project that out on to other people, expecting them to think or react that way too. Hopefully on here you will find that folks accept you for who you are without judgement.

Best wishes

[Hidden in reply to MAS_Nurse]

I didn't say that friendship was JUST about how attractive you are

There is literally people (mostly everyone) who are friends with terrible people inside and out

People that are rude, mean, and just all around awful people like that have a bunch of friends actually

People tell me that I'm a nice person too just like they say that I'm "so attractive" but I don't have any friends soo that's not really true.

[Stilltrying_ in reply to Hidden]

I get where you are coming from. Just because you are attractive and a nice person does not necessarily mean you will have friends ; it could be very low self esteem on your part that means you find it hard to make friends or think enough of yourself to find either a person an individual that cares for you as much as you need or people in general who care for you. Some people have good starts in life and family and friends just "provided".

Maybe you have had a harder time of it and now see it as "evidence" that you are unloveable just because you don't have people around who do love and care for you.

Take good care, you do deserve the good things in life. It's a cliche but you need to start believing in yourself and believing you deserve that reaction from other people.

Gemma X

[Hidden]

Hiya, of course people are single for all sorts of reasons, nothing to do with attraction. Yes, there are sadly too many lonely people in this world - again, not their fault and nothing to do with 'attraction', usually just circumstances. Most of us do not have many close friends. Most of the people we interact with on a daily basis are not really friends anyway - mostly they are complete strangers, people we bump into while out and about or work colleagues, but these social interactions often bring their own rewards. If you smile at someone, more often than not they will smile back at you (Ok, sometimes that doesn't work out and it feels a bit weird !) If you help someone, they will mostly appreciate it and if you need help, most people will offer it. I believe most people want to be friendly and that if we are kind and courteous people will like us, even if they don't necessarily tell us. I don't think anyone here would have any reason to 'lie' to you, judge you or doubt you. Your story is genuine and you have a right to be heard. This forum is a 'safe place' for people to offer support and an opportunity to share our doubts, worries, fears, hopes, anxieties, aspirations, experiences etc. I hope you can believe me. Take care,