1 month on.

[Kw94xx]

Hi everyone, just to let you all know that your feed back and opinions on my previous posts have been very helpful to me and I appreciate it so much.

So, now it has been just over a month since me and my ex split up. We have had no contact since I last posted what so ever. This I think has helped a lot as I still feel I couldn't face seeing him or having a conversation with him. I'd say I've made some progress I'm still quite upset but it's not as over powering as it once was, and I am able to focus on other things. Even though admittedly I have broken down a few times crying. Which I suppose we'll I hope is a normal part of moving on and getting over it.

My only issue that I can't seem to get out of the habit of is looking on Facebook. I've blocked him myself, but I've slipped into the habit of going on my dads Facebook and looking at the photos he has liked and who he's become friends with. In a way, it had kind of helped I think because it showed me that the second we split up and until this moment now still he has added loads of random girls and liked all their photos and coming across as desperate which had made me think why the hell would I wanna be with someone like that? But now it's like I can't help but look? Sometimes it hurts a bit to see he's showing these other girls attention but then like I said it was showing how seedy and immature he is too. And to be honest, I think the part that hurts is that it makes me assume he's probably sleeping with these people too as that's what he is like. No doubt what so ever that he's already hooked up with a few girls but I just don't want to be bothered what he's doing anymore but it's hard it's like a habit 😞

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Forget him. One word of strong advise avoid facebook like the plague! Have you ever considered people use facebook as a tool to make thier lives appear hunky dory and hey im really happy and having a great time message to others who they know very well may check them out. The thing that shows this to be so true is when they post things to the world so anyone not just fb so called friends can see all the good bits, of course they do not post the bad bits😀 I can see you find it hard to stop checking to see what he is up to but really it does you no good, do yourself a favour and keep away from fb, anyway no man or woman is worth obsessing about you will move on and meet some one better 😃