Needing some advice!!

[les82]

Advice. How did you all get over a really hard break up? I know it's only been a few days but i'm struggling. I was David's good friend for 7 years before we got together and it is gonna be hard to get over that! ? ? ? ? absolutely lost. Help!! X

[Suzie40]

Getting over a relationship is not dissimilar to a bereavement. In fact in many ways they are the same. I've only been properly in love with one person and getting over it was terrible. I remember day after day of curling up in bed crying, wondering how life could possibly go on. Well it does, and has, so something must have happened! I think you need to focus your efforts on getting through the immediate few days. Eat a little, sleep and cry lots and try not to look too far ahead. I'm here quite a bit at the moment if you want to chat at any time x

[Photogeek in reply to Suzie40]

Lucy how are you tonight ?

[Suzie40 in reply to Photogeek]

[Photogeek in reply to Suzie40]

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[Photogeek in reply to Photogeek]

Lucy give yourself lots of time, as

A death leaves a big hole in your life, or it

Did with mine. I'm around anyway. X

[Photogeek]

Hi Les I think you will feel like this for a while. There is no easy solution and time

Does heal, you will get stronger. Put your focus on your two Children as

They must be feeling g a bit stressed too.

Also I think you should try and talk to someone to help you through this.

You will get used to being on your own, and it's much better than being

In a relationship that's not working.

Hannah x

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Spend as much time as you can with friends and loved ones!! Being with people and letting people be there for you is the most important in my experience. Just know that you will be ok and you will be happy again. It takes time. But its worth it <3 big love

[les82]

Thank you x