STD Herpes questions

[SgtRRT]

Hello! I am in my late 20's, and have started dating after a 5 year relationship. I went out with a woman last night. We had great chemistry, and a pretty good time having drinks. Well, we went back to her place and had sex. I had a condom on, and it was removed half way through intercourse. The next morning, I recieve a text from her saying "I forgot to tell you, I have herpes!" with this long ass explanation that I really dont care for. She has been infected for 12 years, and hasnt had a breakout in over 5 years. She is on antiviral medication daily, and she has tried to assure me that I most likely will not contract the infection. She has shown great sorrow and remorse for not notifying me last night, and putting me at risk. I am her first sexual partner (as she says) since February and claims she forgot to tell me last night. Well. It's the next day, and I am having pretty severe anxiety. She did not have an active breakout as I could personally see, and I am really fucking scared that I may have contracted this. Not only was this her fault, but my fault for even trusting a person after a first date. I understand the logistics and what I should have done differently. Are my transmission risks relatively low given the circumstances?

[Hidden]

Search google if herpes is contaminable through sex. If not relax

[SgtRRT in reply to Hidden]

You're kidding me.... right?

[Antdestroyer1 in reply to SgtRRT]

This guy probably thinks it's the herpes you get on your lips lol. If you contract it, I think you'd have one of the symptoms pop up. If you're worried, get tested in a clinic

[nfor]

This is a very good source of information look it up and take proper measures to avoid further problems. cdc.gov/std/herpes/stdfact-...

[GodsLady]

If she did not have an outbreak chill, get tested every 6 months but unless she was having an outbreak and you came in contact with that outbreak you are good.

[jimfromcalif]

She is contagious regardless of absence of an outbreak. Even a condom does not guarantee protection as the virus can be on her skin, free to transfer to your skin.

[allstar1979]

As long as she wasn’t on an outbreak you’ll be fine. Don’t stress too much. I would kick her to the curb for telling you after the fact.

[SgtRRT]

So far so clear!

[allstar1979 in reply to SgtRRT]

How’s it looking?

[SgtRRT in reply to allstar1979]

No symptoms. No sores. Getting tested anyways and hoping it is all clear. The girl tried to guilt trip me into another date LOL! Not a chance.