Hey all, so this just happened last week. I was using a sex toy that I lubed the first time, but took a break that resulted in the lube partially drying up. I believed water was sufficient to make the lube work again and proceeded with that.
Now I'll just go ahead and make a list of things where it may have gone wrong.
1). Upon inserting it, I noticed that it may have reduced blood circulation towards my head.
2). After climaxing I felt a longer-than-usual sensation.
3a). I closed my eyes to try to urinate, but when I opened my eyes because nothing was coming out, my penis looked a bit swollen.
3b). It looked as if I still had an erect penis but my entire shaft retracted and it was just my head that was big, it seemed as if it was engorged. I still managed to urinate fine
4). I now have reduced sensation of the upper portion of my penis (top of head/shaft).
5). I've been to paranoid to masturbate, let alone try to achieve an erection.
It has been 5 days since this event and I have not masturbated since. My penis can still become erect, but I ignore it and let it become flaccid. I am too concerned about what happened and I think that may contribute to my anxiety and my inability to bother getting an erection. I plan on seeing a doctor some time next week, but what is the best thing to do in my state? I am unsure if I have ED or if I injured a couple of nerves. But I do believe abstaining from masturbating is for the best. Thank you!