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looking to hear from guys who have been done.did you experience noticeable differences (good or bad)in feeling etc either with sex or masterbation ?

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Guessing you mean after circ' ?For me overall I would say sex was better before and masturbation was definitely easier !

But, ejaculation does now have more force and my dick does look bigger ?

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

yes mate after circ.why you say they were better before ? What age did you get it done mate n why ? So cumming feels better ? Looks bigger really id been thinking removing a bit would have the opposite effect ?

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

mate if sex n wanking was better before why did you get it ?

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jaglad in reply to versa2508

I believed people on here who said it was the best thing ever ! 😂

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jaglad in reply to jaglad

Seriously though. My reasons are documented on here previously, but basically it was 'Zoon's Balanitis'.

I was in my early fifties. Masturbating was easier as no lube required.

Sex was better I think as you could feel the sensitivity through the foreskin but mainly because if I ever lost my erection during sex or foreplay a 'quick tug' would have me hard again. Not so now ? I guess it the swollen head that makes it look bigger ?

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

do you regret getting it done ? Or does good outweigh bad ? Do you feel keeping foreskin would just caused you more grief ?

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jaglad in reply to versa2508

For the situation I was in it was the best thing for me and I am generally happy with what I got. As I have said before, somethings where better before. A few things better now but it is not something I would put myself through without good reason.

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

did you find it a lot to go through then ? To op or the aftercare ?

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jaglad in reply to versa2508

The Op' was pretty straightforward. My Wife dropped me off in the morning, I had General Anaesthetic, and she picked me up in the evening.

I suffered with Hyper Sensitivity meaning the pain was sometimes unbearable despite painkillers, and it lasted for weeks. But this is unusual so don't that in itself put anyone off. I was given very little in the way of care instructions, my Wife is a Nurse which helped but also advice from this site.

I have said before that my initial diagnosis was possible Penile Cancer so I was rushed through the system. If I knew then what I know now would I have gone through with it ? I honestly do no know ?

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

ideally id rather be asleep for any op.but most surgeons ive noticed seem to just do local.so it was the recovery process n aftercare you found tough ?

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by hypersensitivity do you mean it was really sore just rubbing clothing etc ? Did you also find you were getting s lot more aroused aesier n cumming quicker ?

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jaglad in reply to versa2508

I have read quite a few on here just had a local, I was not given an option and I am glad about that !

Any touch was painful, changing bandages, going the loo any touch. I wore tight fitting pants, which where painful to put on, but once in place it kept things mainly still. And movement meant pain. I did my best to avoid any sexy thoughts for a full six weeks, not easy but any twitch meant pain. Even after the six weeks I was still in some discomfort. The first time we had sex was good and bad. I wore a condom to try and protect the head, use plenty of lube, the actual experience was amazing. After abstaining for so long the feeling was beautiful ! But taking the condom off hurt like hell, so we never tried that again, just plenty of lube.

When things settled down I did become aroused quicker, probably with the head rubbing, but it was definitely not easier to cum.

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

so all in all you happy enough n glad you decided to get it ?

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jaglad in reply to versa2508

Happy enough, yes. Glad it was done, no. I would rather have not been in the position of needing it.

Hope that makes sense. The way I see it is, it is done and all works fine, usually ! 🙂

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

so obv rather not needed it.but now its done your happy enough.everythings working ok? Ive noticed my helmet doesnt seem.to get as hard as the shaft.do you reckon some tightness at frenulum foreskin could be tye reason for that ?

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jaglad in reply to versa2508

Dunno to be honest, I seem to get equally hard.

I know some suggest foreskin regrowth, not sure exactly how that works. But yea, I'm happy with what I now got.

I went backwards, cut at birth, fully restores 10years ago . But I know what you will find out. You will want to keep your head protected and emolliated so that your head's surface will not dry out, surface thicken, and loose sensitivity. I was cut for 53 years and wish I had protected mine, but all this knowledge was not talked about by medical staff but have regained a lot of sensitivity. Skin thickens to protect exposed portions, your body, ...., palms, elbows, knees, even your sun-tanned areas and that lessens sensitivity. I will happen "down there" too so think about what a 4skin was meant to do and try to keep all the positives of that environment going.

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Did you need it at birth for a reason ? How is that even possible to fully restore ? Emoliated ? You mean apply some lube or moisturiser ? Is it so bad if you leave it to dry out ? Im confused by cut for 53 year ? How can you not still be ? Age are you now ? By protected it do you mean have a strict daily care regimen ? Meant to do you mean keep your glans moist n protected ?

In the USA, pediatricians have parents hook-winked on the issue of cutting. It is just done unless you stand up for your child- I was in the delivery room helping and the nurse just took my son off to the cutting form and I raised holy hell- the doctor literally yelled at the nurse, "READ THE DAMN DOCTORS NOTES". a year before in I think it was New Mexico, but a true legal case, a Mexican family's child was revisited in the nursery where the doctor cut the child with no permission and this Mexican family very successfully sued the hospital. It was a landmark case that sent the stage for cutting to be approved by the parents AND that decision honored! Pretty much tells it all in the USA and newborn rights: circumstitions.com/coerce.html

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are you for it or against it at birth ? Did you not say you needed it at birh ?

No I did not need what I see as mutilation at birth! LOL!!!! My son is not cut on at all- I made sure of that. From over 40 years of looking into cutting on dicks, I have found little reason to make it a routine procedure only to make serum that are $300 an out of the Fibroblasts then sorry to say to a point improve skin texture. But that said, just how good can a 90yo millionaire's wife look from use of such ill-gotten serums? A child is born, 4skin removed, the 4skin is gotten for free PLUS the procedure fee for the hospital. The hospital sells the 4skin to cosmetic labs that emulsify it to get the active fibroblasts from the "muck" and then make a serum for $300+ an ounce out on the high end cosmetic salons. How sick is that and all the while the family and the child see none of the horrendous profit off of the child's 15minute old 4skin. It is actually a worldwide FARMING business, and the hospitals SHOULD be paying for the hoods they steal in the name of beautiful skin for wealthy hags.

Ellen brings it all out and Sandra makes a joke about it, but Korea kids are not the only source for 4skins,, US labs are in on this too! And these two guys are about as informed as a rock.

youtu.be/BY2aOHQlAco

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have you took time to be sure your sons is loose enough ?

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versa2508

my father had it at birth due to tightness.no expert but think this is a reason a lot are done at birth.maybe to prevent any of these things n infections etc being possible.ive often wished id been done at birth.

as pups they had no issues, they all wear big boy pants now so it's up to them to handle it if they do/did. But I'd have heard something about it and no word out now so the world is good.

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not sure what upu mean mate ?

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is there not a % cut at birth due to tightness etc ? Im no expert but id thought even if tight at birth may loosen up over time

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Uncutdad in reply to versa2508

all foreskins are adhered to the head almost like a cuticle on your finger nail. It in effect seals the glans from the inevitable urine and feces in a diaper. The end of the foreskin has basically an “elastic ring” I believe called the phimotic ring or like a sphincter (although not a muscle as in anus) it causes the end of the foreskin to close after urination. I watched The pediatrician for our son pulled the skin open just enough to see the urethral opening without actual retraction. When he would pee during diaper changes he NEVER shot in the air or in our face. Think of the end of the closed foreskin as if you pucker up your lips and put a rubber band on your lips. You could blow out a mouthful of water if you needed to but if someone splashed on your face it wouldn’t get into your mouth. I venture to say that any parent that has been peed in the face during diaper change has a circumcised boy on the change table. So the argument that circumcised boys are cleaner is out the window because you only have to contain a dribble instead of a jet of urine.

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versa2508 in reply to Uncutdad

Sound like your against circumcision ?

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Uncutdad in reply to versa2508

pretty much against yes. I suppose religious reasons will never change so I have no reason to debate that population. If for true medical issues sure. I’m just saying that if a guy hasn’t been able to retract for 10,20,30 years then I guess it’s best for general hygiene.

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versa2508 in reply to Uncutdad

If they've not been able to retract at all,could they still have managed a sex life ?

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Omniscient1 in reply to Uncutdad

Hi I'm new here, do I understand from you (all) that it is normal for babies to get circumcised in the US??

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xsevenx in reply to Omniscient1

Good income stream for US Urologists.

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Omniscient1 in reply to xsevenx

Bizarre!

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Uncutdad in reply to Omniscient1

usa is still about 2/3 circ at birth, with parent consent, although some parents say they were pressured to consent with doctor saying “cleaner, less infection, no cancer, looks better, women prefer circ”. However with such a high circ rate USA has high HIV/AIDS rate so circ doesn’t stop infections. Condoms needed

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Omniscient1 in reply to Uncutdad

Just looked this up, about 15% in the UK. I've never heard of any pressure, socially, medically etc to have boys done at birth.

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do you mean its upto as an adult to decide to get it or not ?

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jaglad

I think hidden means all his kids have intact foreskins and have no problems that he is aware of.

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versa2508 in reply to jaglad

sure my dad was only an infant when he had to get it due to tightness

I think the most freaked out I’d been is when my doc retracted me, and I was bleeding under there. He was %100 sure I’d had herpes but came back neg.. as did most of the tests I already knew I didn’t have that . Then I started getting red itchy skin near gland. Now I’m cut nothing like that 5 weeks in looks less inflamed.( Gland) this all happened in my 50s ..never younger weird I’m not diabetic ruled that out also …. I’ve lost no sensation so far but I can’t officially use it till week 6. But I did learn a new trick 😳 I never knew existed till cut.

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xsevenx in reply to

Hey Hidden , do share with us your “new trick”!

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I’m not sure allowed .. rules 🤣.

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Joe_D in reply to

Curious now!

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What's the trick ?

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