Depression

[MIZLA12]

How do you think i should handle a circumcision done by a barbaric surgeon for a non medical reasons. My foreskin was healthy and has no issues. Wasn’t forced to do it by anyone, just thought it was a good idea and now i 100% regret making such a mistake. I wished the doctor had at least told me i was making a mistake and i’m going to regret it. I don’t want to die suffering from emotional distress. Please help me?

[Hidden]

Sadly there is no guarantee that comes with any surgery. What is the health problem with your penis?

[MIZLA12 in reply to Hidden]

Just the hard mass from the drained hematoma. My skin is dryer (kind of scaly) and darker

[Mickey2323]

Unfortunately most uros love to do this surgery to make good money. They don’t look at the best interest of the individual

[Marcolove]

Did you sign any paperwork before surgery? Did the surgeon Explained everything was going to happen to you before and after? If you’re unhappy with the outcome and gives you problems maybe you should see a legal advice! Or if you’re feeling down maybe you should do few months of psychology , you can talk about the things that bothers you in your life and making peace with it by talking about it!! They’re lots of counselling charity so won’t cost you a penny!!

[MIZLA12 in reply to Marcolove]

I signed a paper saying i understand “ONLY” the risks of “bleeding and infection”. Nothing else!! There’s wasn’t anything that says it was gonna change my sex life, emotional issues and LONG recovery. Instead they told me it was a one month recovery thing and i shouldn’t worry; and i can go back to my normal life; having sex, and other strenuous activities. Deeply regret it bro. My brother and i are so close and until now i haven’t said anything to him about being circumcised because i’m afraid of being judge. If i had seen this men’s forum and read about people who underwent circumcision i would’ve been thanking God to save me, right now. But now, i’m broken and it feels like the end of the world for me

[Harsh_patel in reply to MIZLA12]

Hello bro don’t become much depressed i just have 99% same experience like you which doctor you go for circumcision?? Can you say coty name here where you did this?

[MIZLA12 in reply to Harsh_patel]

Dr. John Hoover

[Harsh_patel in reply to MIZLA12]

Ohh i got same experience but i am in india doctor me same as like yours just simple procedure and after 1 month you can sex and next day every activity you can do so we think it is very simple.. but don’t worry bro don’t be depressed everything will normal just take more time sometimes our mind need more to accept this.. you are on which day of post circumcision ??

[MIZLA12 in reply to Harsh_patel]

5 weeks post op

[Harsh_patel in reply to MIZLA12]

Now which types of problems you are facing bro?? I am on 7 week complete circumcision so we can compare.. you start your job or study related work that will divert your mind otherwise you will more depressed.. as I experienced same before on week 5-6 now I started my routine life with small pain

[MIZLA12 in reply to Harsh_patel]

Discomfort around the incision but it feels like it’s getting better. I start going back to work 3 weeks ago. Circ was done may 24 and hematoma was drain on june 8. i returned back to work the following week. Every thing looks fine but it’s just discomfort and bad experience that’s why i’m suffering from this distress. i’m starting to accept it so far, so i feel much better than 3 weeks ago

[Marcolove in reply to MIZLA12]

Mate i do understand what you are saying , I’m sure your brother won’t judge you could happened to everyone but having a brother is a good thing especially if you’re close . You prefer to deal this by yourself because your ashamed but brother don’t be honestly just to talk to people that you trust or like I said a professional do some counselling is always confidential . I am sure with time you will feel different!! All the best my friend, keep strong , remember we’re alive!! Ciao

[Dhhdjxhhd]

I understand mate. I’m 4 weeks post op. Still have a lot of swelling (lymphedema). No timeline as into when it will resolve. Also, sensitivity is an issue. I can bear any cloth touch to pee hole. Super uncomfortable to walk around