I really can't cope anymore my son and I are constantly arguing, he has no respect for me or my partner, he has stole money from me, done drugs is a compulsive liar, is manipulative, controlling, and quite honestly I can't take anymore, he says his mental health is to blame and that he has suicidal thoughts, yet when he's had therapy he says he hasn't. He says I don't understand anything about him, maybe I dont because he is so secretive.
I have given him everything he has ever wanted, I get no thanks, I clothe him feed him etc and it's just take take take, he goes to college in the morning and I don't see him till 9 at night ( before covid).
While in lockdown he goes out to meet his mates , I cant stop him, its for his mental health.
I just think he would be better on his own to sort himself out, I really can't do it any more its making me ill, I cry all the time, I'm tired, my nerves are on edge and I literally can't cope anymore