here goes ............. Irecently told my boss that i find it hard when theres meetings after work as i start feeling ill if i do long days.
Then last week , she said ; we need to have a planning meeting on tuesday ok ; I couldnt believe this, after what i told her, but was stunned so i said ok.
Later , i said could i come in later so that i could come to the after work meeting without having a really long day. She said yes but now cant do tuesday so wants me to go to her house for a meeting between 7 -9.
I am starting to resent attending these every 2 wks cause i find it a hard enough struggle just doing my 24 hrs a week !
I decided to lay it on the line and sent her a private message saying that i rarely have the energy as it is to pop out in the eve as it is, so if i can i dont want to spend this time at meetings.
I said that the only solution is to plan these meetings after work , when we are fully staffed, so that i can come in later!
She hasnt replied ...............
I just feel that i am push enough already and i dont want work to take up any more time,as you know we only have so many spoons!
I feel that i need to put my health as a priority and need to say no and be assertive, any opinions !!!!????